Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

Can someone help me. I recently ran into my first love and we went a little further then friends should but we couldn't help it. I am in a relationship but i can't stop thinking about him and that night. I am creepin around calling him every chance i get. Going over his house and now i am torn between the two. Can someone help me please.

2006-11-06 07:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

i got the blues.

2006-11-06 07:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by missy 1 in Singles & Dating

When there has been an ugly divorce and custody battle and one parent insists on violating the court-approved parenting schedule, which branch of law enforcement gets involved in things like returning the kids from the wrong place to the right place? Sheriff? Police?

2006-11-06 07:14:53 · 2 answers · asked by Key 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl friend said that her boyfriend and her did it for 3 hours straight, she said that it felt great and he did all the position she likes and the ones he likes but she did not make it to O(he did of course). She also said that she was very sore the next day which kinda turned her on. She said that it was still very good (even without an O) because she likes to do it for hours at a time. I find this hard to believe, what do you girls think?

2006-11-06 07:14:51 · 6 answers · asked by winterlinda21 1 in Singles & Dating

he's a great guy on paper but i have the feeling he likes me more than i like him. should i end it or should i wait it out to see if i can grow to love him?

2006-11-06 07:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend does not put me first it's always his friends, mom and then his family. What should I do? He is not responsible and I am truely sick of it I want to be with him but I don't think he is ever going to change.

2006-11-06 07:14:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can one lack a conscience .......isnt that a human element we all have an d if not how?.........also cheating in a marriage and then doing nothing to save it......this is after 24 yrs and 4 kids......he is 42 and the new women is 21....makes me laugh.......but he acts like i never exsisted and shuts me out giving our kids messages to tell me so childish........how can he act without guilt or remorse for causing all the hurt and pain he has........

2006-11-06 07:14:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every time me and ma BF get intamet its really hard 4 me 2 let loose and you know get down and dirty with it, like i really want to but i just cant. does anybody got any ideas of what i can do? PLEASE HELP ME!!

2006-11-06 07:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by La C0qu3ta 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do u feel sometimes that u r all alone in that world and no one beside u and u have nothing to do that?? and what do u do when u feel that?? becoz right now i feel that way...

2006-11-06 07:12:59 · 11 answers · asked by maro 1 in Singles & Dating

absolutely zero home abuse. she wanted to leave but when i said the 2 year old stays, she called 911 and 5 officers escorted her and the crying boy out of the clean safe home with no signs of fighting. they kept me cornered and said do not try and contact. she can go if shes a cheat, but where is my boy & what can i do?

2006-11-06 07:12:58 · 15 answers · asked by matthew m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I (accidentally) found out last week that my husband has been corresponding with his ex girlfriend through email. Or at least that's all I know about. The emails seem pretty innocent...however, I'm not mentioned on any of the email correspondance. My husband has been eagerly awaiting for his 20th HS reunion...and in one of the emails to her - he said he wasn't interested in attending the reunion...but I know he has been working very hard to stay in shape just so he could be thin for this reunion taking place next year. He's talked about this for about a year now. Let me add - this girl was his first love. The girl he lost his virginity 2. Should I worry? Should I confront him? Should he be corresponding with an ex-girlfriend? Please help... I'm going crazy thinking that he could still have some feelings for her.

2006-11-06 07:12:32 · 23 answers · asked by sallyucla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband plays guitars in a band and last year i caught him playing around with a groupie. if i did not leave him last may, he wouldn't have admitted it. he said it was ONLY a fling. from then on, i felt so betrayed and everything that has to do with his band pisses me off! simply because he wouldn't leave the band (that doesn't pay much) even if i ask him to concentrate more on our business since it's where we do get our income, eversince that cheating we wouldn't last a week without arguing about his real priority (whether the band or our business...& no matter how much he tries to mask his priority, i'm definitely sure which one).....it's so impossible to talk with him because with regards to our problems he'd rather just put walls and change the topic....i want to move on, no matter how betrayed i still feel and fix this marriage but he'd always end up screwing it up.......all for staying with the band.....

2006-11-06 07:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by ekim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 07:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

ive seemed to have looked everywhere..joined diffrent organisations..so are you a good man?

2006-11-06 07:12:03 · 20 answers · asked by missy 1 in Singles & Dating

he's a nice, sweet, geeky sorta guy... treats me like a princess and is a real gentleman... i'm not crazy about him but he's really nice and i like him for that. could this grow to something more or am i just bending the truth because i'm feelin lonely?

2006-11-06 07:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Singles & Dating

i need to vent. For Thanksgiving, we are staying with my in-laws. They have a queen size aerobed for us to sleep on. my parents only have 2 twin beds (plus, i think other relatives are staying a night). The problem is that my mother in law has decided that instead of putting us in their office (my husbands old room) they are going to put us in the finished basement. THERE IS NO DOOR GOING DOWN TO THE BASEMENT! this brings up 2 issues....no privacy at all! anyone could walk down at anytime (which they will). And, because the cat is coming with us, he is going to have to be in a cage the whole night because of the other animals (1 dog 1 cat). You just cant put a shelter cat in a cage ever again, minus the fact he will cry all night (we tried locking him in the bathroom one night and all he did was cry).

So, my only solution (unless you have any others) is to think of good excuses to sleepover at mom's by myself for most of the nights, and be without my husband. HELP!!!

2006-11-06 07:11:04 · 7 answers · asked by joymroach 2 in Family

Im easily intimidated by people but I want to make new friends and have more guys like me. Im afraid to step out of my comfort zone and every day at schoo at lunch,I hide in the library and play with this yahoo thing. Could you ppl help me be more confident and comfortable with myself and less intimidated by others?

2006-11-06 07:10:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

hes 5'7

2006-11-06 07:10:36 · 5 answers · asked by ♥loveisforever♥ 2 in Family

2006-11-06 07:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by Kria 3 in Singles & Dating

There's more to a relationship than cooking, cleaning, and having sex.A relationship also consists of..........

2006-11-06 07:10:11 · 11 answers · asked by heavenly28001 3 in Singles & Dating

I've looked everywhere for it and I can't find it.

2006-11-06 07:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well to the question before this about a ex of mine i did tell him back off i told him i am seeing someone he came to my job and well we called the cops but he just doesnt get it so know what do i do when cops aint good enough?

2006-11-06 07:08:36 · 20 answers · asked by wantme4me1313 1 in Singles & Dating

I am new to the whole game...last night this guy was sucking away and it reallly hurt- normal? or no?

2006-11-06 07:07:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need advice on my best friend. She and I have been friends for 15 years and as of lately she's on a downward spiral for drinking and occasional drug use. She doesn't drink during the week so she binges on the weekends. She usually ends up extremely incoherent, making a fool of herself and needing to be taken care of. I'm fearful that she's going to hurt herself or get hurt by someone else. I'm the only one that seems to be willing to man up and talk to her but I can't figure out a way to do it so she'll listen to what I have to say. I know it will be a blow out and I'm willing to risk my friendship to save her life. Any advice would be greatful.

Thanks

2006-11-06 07:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by INS24106 2 in Friends

why is it that so many people feel like marriage is the end all be all. that if a couple has a child and is unmarried they are crazy or irresponsible. Has anyone considered that they may base their love on something bigger than a piece of paper. Why do so many people feel like if you are married you will have some security. Half of all marriages end in divorce, isn't it better to be with someone and know you are devoted, rather than have a piece of paper that says you are. Many marriages fall apart, people cheat, they don't trust each other. Yet anytime anyone asks a relationship or parenting question on this site, someone responds with are u married? Like marriage is going to make your life better? I don't dislike marriage, but is it not true that u can be perfectly happy in monogomus relationship for decades and never marry, yet still be devoted and happy? what difference(other than some legal rights)does a piece of paper Make?

2006-11-06 07:07:53 · 16 answers · asked by TR 4 in Marriage & Divorce

On most weekends my mother will come into my room at 12 singing "Happy Breakfast to you, Happy breakfast to you.... " (tune of Happy Birthday) and present me with breakfast in bed.
I hate this! It means I have to get up and straighten the pillows and eat... I would rather sleep!!!

2006-11-06 07:07:36 · 13 answers · asked by Becky 4 in Family

I've just started in a new relationship, but i get really embarassed around the other person, he makes me so nervous how can i make our relationship work? i want to get in a relationship with him its just so difficult because I'm so self conscious

2006-11-06 07:07:01 · 6 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

Since the Catholic Church does not recognize any marriage outside of their Church, does this mean if a person has been married and divorced outside the Catholic Church, they can get married in a Catholic Church if they choose to?

2006-11-06 07:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Weddings

Why do I have to fall so fast?

It's not so easy for me to get up after I fall.

There are two guys I like, But I like one a little more.

Oh, god, I feel like one of the biggest whores.

All he wanted was to be loved by me.

And I liked him back at one point in time.

I hope he doesn't read this.

Because then I'd feel bad.

Later on I'll probably realize what I really had.

No matter which one I choose, Still I will feel bad.

I would be happier with one more than the other.

There is a guilty conscience in my head.

Because I don't like my boyfriend much anymore.

I believe I'm living Hell, until it freezes over.

I gotta do what I wanna do.

Between me and my boyfriend.

Between me and you.

I think it's over.

I said I wasn't going back to love until I find what's true.

But I rushed into what I thought was true way, way too fast.

If you havn't guessed it already.

My boyfriend is the one I like less.

I'm afraid if I break up with him that I will break his heart and I know what that feels like.

And I don't want him to go through that again.

I don't want to live my life pleasing others though.

I want to please myself too.

Me and this guy that I like more, kissed on Friday.

THAT is why I feel like a liar, cheater, know-nothing, and worthless person on this Earth.

I like this guy so much, though.

So INCREDIBLY much.

My best friend hates me now.

She likes this guy that I like.

She says that she's too fat and ugly to get anyone she wants.

She claims that I can get any man on this earth that I want.

I know better than that though.

I know that I can't.

But this one person that I really, really like likes me back too.

So why shouldn't I go out with him.

He likes me, not her.

But I don't want to lose TWO really good friends just to have this one boy.

I'm so confused.

But I think I know what to do.

I hope...

2006-11-06 07:05:18 · 8 answers · asked by broken_fantasys 1 in Singles & Dating

See, my grandmother was in our custody as of a year ago, and she was alright in Florida, while we are in West Verginia. (she was in a retirement home) But then my two cousins decided that they were going to try to take my grandmother away from us by fighting for her in coart. The only reason they did that was because they hated my grandmother, and they didn't want my father to have his inheratance. When they won on friday the thirteenth of last year, they illegally moved her from Florida to Verginia... and her arthritus killed her. Before she died, they illegally spent 24000 dollers on possessions that were (supposedly) for my grandmother. Now, because of them, my father has to take us to Verginia to take the possessions that she baught with our money. We got her in trouble, just so you know. were fighting her in coart. but how should i feel when i see her? i'm not going to let her get away with what she did without giving her hell from me? i loved my grandmother, and it's their fault.

2006-11-06 07:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by Aurora_Rose_Maree 2 in Marriage & Divorce