I am new to the whole game...last night this guy was sucking away and it reallly hurt- normal? or no?
2006-11-06 07:07:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
t*i*t*s that what they bleeped out ....
2006-11-06 07:08:40 · update #1
It shouldn't hurt. You are probabely very sensitive in that area, so you should indicate him that it hurts you, you can say 'nice' when he does it properly and 'ouch' or any word you think will be suitable when it hurts and after some practice it should feel fine. Don't be ashamed to tell him that it was a bit rough for you that time, and offer the solution I gave you, if the guy is matture that should work. Or maybe you are just too sensitive and don't like that area to be sucked, some people are like that.
It just needs trying, guys often don't realise how sensitive we are there, so they try their best and mess up. If they just relax and are delicate than it will be beta.
Have fun
Lots of Love
2006-11-06 07:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by aga m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not supposed to hurt, you need to let this person know that it was uncomfortable and find out how you do like them kissed ( or sucked as the case may be) Are they also new to the game?
Sounds to me as though they are, it takes time and practice so dont give up, just let them know if it hurts, also if you want you could try demonstrating how you DO want it done to you, if that doesnt work find a new lover.
2006-11-06 07:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, baby. If a guy knows what he's doing it's not supposed to hurt. It's supposed to feel great. If it's done correctly it feels like a drug that gets you addicted to more of it. The guy who did that to you is dangerous to the rest of the males in this country because everytime a guy messes up with a woman concerning that the woman gets a fear complex and never wants another man to touch her like that again. She becomes afraid to try new things and really enjoy sex. Drop this guy or tell him how you want it done. You may have to coach him before he gets it right.
2006-11-06 07:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not really hurt at all for me. like if someone punched you really hard on the leg and left a bruise, it would be that pain...except I never had it last as long as a bruise...pain goes away pretty quick. Your girlfriend doesn't know what you go through when you get kicked in the nuts and I can tell it seriously does not compare.
2016-05-22 04:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can definitely hurt if he is doing it wrong. You have to communicate with your partner, tell him they are very sensitive and you don't mind it if he is just more gentle. Some men might think you like it rough. Keep that door of communication open, cause being in pain can be a Hugh turn off for you!! : )
2006-11-06 07:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes either sucking too hard or you have really tender breasts.
Ask him to try sucking on them lightly then see what happens. It should feel extremely good not painful. Sometimes guys have no idea what their doing so you have to guide them. Dont be afraid to let him know what feels good and what doesn't
2006-11-06 07:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt if the guy doesnt know what the heck he is doing. Also if its close to "that time of the month" it can hurt then too.
2006-11-06 07:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's supposed to feel good. If it hurts speak up and make him stop. All girls like different things, you need to figure out what you like and divert his attention to those areas.
2006-11-06 07:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say boobs, or what....regardless, it shouldn't hurt. Maybe he was sucking too hard. But, let him know what you like. Be honest. If he is hurting you, guide him in another direction.
2006-11-06 07:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dude might be doing it wrong. He could be sucking a little to hard. Tell him to lick and nibble and suck lightley and you should enjoy it.
2006-11-06 07:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋