he's a great guy on paper but i have the feeling he likes me more than i like him. should i end it or should i wait it out to see if i can grow to love him?
2006-11-06 07:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends.... does it bug u, or annoy u when he is overly passionate or lovey dovey? =T u may end up mistreating him and resenting him if u don't Respect and Appreciate his "extra Love". but if u think it is worth trying, go ahead..but make sure that to respect him, u will cut it off when u feel that u don't respect him enough to love him back. good luck
2006-11-06 07:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love happens differently for different people. While I do believe in love at first sight, it has to be with two pairs of eyes, not just one. But love can come slowly, just look at all the prearranged marriages in other countries that survive. My advice, if the passion isn't there, and you don't think it ever will be, don't waste this guys time or your time. Make a clean break and move on; love can't be built on lies; so, if you're telling this guy stuff to keep from hurting him, you're only going to make the inevitable break hurt worse.
2006-11-06 07:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not really sure, it's not fair to either of you. I've tried this and it only gets harder as time goes on. You keep waiting, hoping that something will develop, but you just end up getting stuck in a difficult situation because you've gotten used to him being around.
2006-11-06 07:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by cause0im0broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't even started a relationship with him, neither of you can know if you love each other, much less who loves whom more. If you find him attractive and feel that there is relationship potential there, then by all means, go for it.
2006-11-06 07:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by fft5305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it time, because later on you mind develop stronger feelings for him. Because later on you might get stronger feelings for him, just wait it out. But you already like him but just see how it plays out you and him...if for awhile you still feel like you dont have any stronger feelings for him just end it. But try to get to know him more, and take it slow.
2006-11-06 07:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women practice dismissal, fear, and preoccupation.
The number 1 dating advice for women is "play hard to get".
Also, no one has ever seen the start of a relationship anywhere.
2006-11-06 07:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Love is about to be loved. Think about it how you want handle to grow up to this stage and if is really what you want.
2006-11-06 07:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. If everyone waited for the person whose love matched theirs exactly no one would ever get together.
2006-11-06 07:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not. You mustn't! And do you know why? Because you need to find someone you really love not someone you just like. Do you want to give your 'soul' to someone that you really don't want and like. But i wish you good luck whatever you do.
2006-11-06 07:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by Witchgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I you don't love him, don't lead him on.
If you have feeling for him, then by all means try to explore the realtionship.
I would just stay friends until more sparks fly.
2006-11-06 07:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋