My boyfriend does not put me first it's always his friends, mom and then his family. What should I do? He is not responsible and I am truely sick of it I want to be with him but I don't think he is ever going to change.
2006-11-06 07:14:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by family I mean me and our children not his family being put before me .
2006-11-06 07:20:00 · update #1
leave him
2006-11-06 07:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by yates1stlady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not ready for a relationship as serious as the one you are looking for. Either move on or accept that he is not as serious as you.
I don't blame a guy for putting his family first, though - family is there forever, but significant others can come and go. Until there's a ring on your finger, don't expect to be number one.
2006-11-06 07:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jocelyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend puts his friends before me 2 but everyone says that friends r forever and girlfriend and boyfriends will come and go in and out of ur life it hard to understand guys when it comes 2 there friends but when it comes to family everyone puts family before anyone else in their life but friends i think should be at least put behind ur boyufriend or girlfriend and that their #one thing in their life should be either there girlfriend or boyfriend or their family but not their friends but tell him how u feel about him picking his friends before u maybe he will listen i mean i talked to my boyfriend about it and now he dont pick his friends or me hardly anymore
2006-11-06 07:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a husband like that and we are divorced now.Have you discussed that issue with him?He may not even be aware that he is doing it and if he is ....well..... then you have a problem. If it ever comes to marriage what you have before the marriage will be what you get during the marriage.
2006-11-06 07:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by heavenly28001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a cuz who is just like that, he puts his family first friends second, then his girl. he doesn't like the sound of putting his girl before his family so we tell him to put her above us a lil bit and it seems to work, cuase his girl was real mad before, but he's changed. just give him some time.
2006-11-06 07:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Taco Bomber Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner is exactly the same. If you can't live with it, you will have to make a decision to end the relationship. I am in the same boat. It's decision time.
2006-11-06 07:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes my bf make me feel like that as well all you have to do is treat him the same way then when he sees you doing the same thing he'll ask you why then you say what goes around comes right back around
2006-11-06 07:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you.
Drop him like a bad habit - or stay & keep complaining about it til he drops you for the next.
2006-11-06 08:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. Try talking to him.
2006-11-06 07:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Watermelon Punch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋