I need BIG TIME help on this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
okay, theres this girl i like and the whole f'n school knows it along with her. for the past two months ive been having a tough time with this cause i aint got no ballz and i cant figure out what to say. now she thinks im a complete stalker cause i dont talk to her. we hang out a lot cause we have pretty much the same friends. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" attempt (you know, like when a team is down fifty to nothing and its the fourth quarter, yea cause im down like fifty to nothing here too) to get her please list your idea. i believe that nothing is ever hopeless, you can always have a chance. even if u have an idea that builds for the future,it'd be greatly appreciated cause im only a freshman in high school. IF YOU HAVE A NEGATIVE COMMENT DONT PUT IT IN CAUSE THAT PUTS DOWN MY SELF CONFIDENCE!! THX
2006-11-06 07:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by German L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The easiest way to talk to her is to wait until you are both around all of your friends. Try to sneak in something about the converstaion that everyone is talking about if you can. That way you can start talking to her from there. Let me give you a word of advice coming from a female. We like guys that appear to be confident even if they are nervous to death on the inside. You have to talk to her sooner or later or she'll get turned off and go for the next guy. Just get the nerve up the next time your both around your friends and just talk to her. If you feel like you want to do it without people around then that's fine too, but just get it over with. I know your nervous because that's to be expected, but you can't let her see this. Good luck!!!
2006-11-06 07:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart!!!!!!!!!! Realize who you are! There is not another person on the face of this earth who can offer the things you can. You are one of a kind! Created special just like you are!
This young lady may or may not be the best for you. You will never know until you open your mouth and give her the opportunity to get to know you.
Step up! Hold your head up and be proud of your self! You will find that women like a man with confidence. After all, she could not DO better than you! Go for it. If this one doesn't work, another one will! What's meant to be WILL happen!
Good luck to you.
2006-11-06 15:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by jomama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem myself. Since your shy you need to do something really sweet for her. Make it unknow at first and build a buzz. She'll tell her friends and they will tell her how sweet it is and wonder who you are. Then do something else and leave little clues as to who you are. Then after a few times reveal yourself and hopefully she'll think it was so sweet she'll ignore your stalking. It's fourth quarter and your down by 2 touchdowns. You can try and if all else fails maybe one of her friends will get a crush on you. If your a complete tool and not in their circle then you'll have problems.
2006-11-06 15:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd totally own up to it. That will make it clear that you are more mature than everyone else about it. And if you can laugh at yourself then you have a lot of self confidence. Girls LOOVE self confidence. She probably likes you and is waiting for you to say something. Especially if she flirts with you alot. Good luck! High school sucks!
2006-11-06 15:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by kelleywheel7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know your age, but I can tell you from my experience...
go for it and be sincere.
Go , and ask that girl for a few minutes of her time.
Dont ask for a coffee break , or movie , or nothing.Just talk to her.
What to tell her ? dont prepare. Be sincere and honest with her.
Trust me , girls know when UR lying...or prepared.
So be spontaneous.. tell her U like her and that you would like to know her better....and see things where it would lead to.
GO , GO GO... dont hesitate. What could be the worst ?
that she tells you she is not interested.. in that case You will be where you are now !! where as if she says yes , or thinks about it , You have a go.
See ? You cant lose anything.
Go and good luck.
2006-11-06 15:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by vbpierre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are destined to fail, because you admit your condfindence is low.
"A women/girl likes a man that is sure of himself." I say it again, "A women/girl likes a man that is sure of himself." Practice saying it until you believe it.
Sure, not cocky! If you like this girl, don't let the opportunity slip away. If she is waiting on you, the wait will only last so long and the next cat will move in and sqeeze you out. Time waits for nobody!
Step to her and stop thinking so much.
2006-11-06 15:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her, and invite her to a movie. Only 2 things can happen: No, or Yes. Good luck, and don't worry about the mean people on here. They only effect your confidence if you let them, buddy.
2006-11-06 15:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can start by talking to her more about various things: school, teachers,your common friends etc
and after you let her know you alittle bit better ask her out
even if she says no it is much more better for you to know than to keep wondering ifshe likes you or not
2006-11-06 15:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and talk to her, make a joke about it. She either likes you or she doesnt and you will find out soon enough. Humor is a great ice breaker....
2006-11-06 15:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok man, first ask for her phone number, then if you dont have the balls to ask her out in person do it by text. or call her. dont do it when everybody id around because she WILL say no out of embarrasment despite her real feelings
2006-11-06 15:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by aido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋