2006-11-06 06:54:35 · 42 answers · asked by jules 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
jeez what are u all like?? back to my vib then
2006-11-06 07:47:32 · update #1
you need to understand why you want this. if you're separated, why do you want to sleep with him? does he want the same? make sure you are both clear on the intent and the implications, just don't go "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" and then both separately wonder what it all means.
2006-11-06 07:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by Heath 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of a weird question. I mean theres no moral issue here, you guys are still married. He's your husband until that judge signs the papers. Do whatever you like, although depending on who wants the divorce it may cause some confusion. But it also could save your marriage if you both are willing participants.
2006-11-06 06:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you still want to sleep with him there is most probably still hope for your marriage to work. Most people cant stand to be near partners they are seperating from. You should consider giving it another go. If you cant face the thought of staying with him then you should leave well alone as you would just be giving each other false hope.
2006-11-06 06:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by vic 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What`s the point when you`re not a proper couple anymore? You will only feel used and regret it later on. It would amount to futile sex. That`s all.
2006-11-06 07:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A separation is not a divorce (yet) so you will still be faithful to your marriage and satisfying eeachothers sexual needs. Perhaps you will find that this is a healthy way of keeping together (and may lead to some fruitful conversations after sex).
2006-11-06 06:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
as long as both of you are on the same page. if one still wants to get back together or work through the problems, then it will probably cause more probs by sending the wrong message... but if both of you are done trying in the marriage, and both of you just want sex, then GO FOR IT!
2006-11-06 06:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Should you go and have sex with your husband?...um, No. You should go and make love with your husband.
If your heart isn't in it then you should do nothing. It could make matters worse and confuse the both of you.
Be certain that this is want you both want...notice that I didn't say "need". Take your time and do it right.
2006-11-06 07:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by gmommy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is a fact that virtually 100% of separated/divorced couples continue having sex (at least to some degree)
2006-11-06 07:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by Pat R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Someone is going to get hurt if you do. If you ended the realtionship then you are giving him false hope, if he ended it then you will end up being hurt. You need to talk first and unless there is some chance of ye rekindling the romance and getting back together then it is just better to start trying to let go and move on. Good luck
2006-11-06 06:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
If the two of you are still married and both want to, there is nothing wrong with it at all. It keeps you from looking else where and if the two of you work things out, then you have no regrets to bring back with you...have fun...
2006-11-06 06:58:54 · answer #10 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋