2006-11-06 07:22:17 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
any one can date any body all you need is to be your self and shows what is behind all your external body and truth your self
2006-11-06 07:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by lover boy 2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with some exceptions, a female of 5'7'' should be about 135. 185 might be on the heavy side, not sure if actually considered fat. I would hope not all guys are too shallow to ask a girl out just because of weight.
2016-05-22 04:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are considered obese and need to take better care of yourself. The Healthy Weight Range for 5'7 is 127 - 159 pounds. Before asking a girl out, why not build your self-esteem and work on your health issues? I think everyone will benefit from a healthier you!
2006-11-06 07:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not! He is a person, thus can ask a girl out, and probably wants to. He will have better success with how he dresses, presents himself, and how he treats girls. Yes losing weight would help, but not necessary, I've seen lots of very large persons get dates, get married, etc. Hopefully he will be mentally prepared for rejection, the cutest guys get rejected, and in our society is more likely to face that, but he also will get success. Persistance and trial and error may help, and maybe good friends. I would be reluctant myself on two basis: if there was no chemistry between us [I've been attracted to large men before], and I would be concerned for health. I don't want a b/f that has potentially high health hazards, I want one that will be around! Good luck to him!
2006-11-06 07:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE!!!! IT'S not how u look really, It how u feel about yourself. If you feel depressed, then that vibe is felt by other ppl. If ur positive, then other can feel that ur confident. It is how u look at yourself. No one can love u until you learn to love who u are. Even if u are 215lbs or 100lbs, if they carry confidence then the guy will approch them. But who needs to worry bout what others think, you have to first be comfortable bout you, then others will follow.
2006-11-06 07:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!! Go ahead and ask. Don't even think about the weight. Let your confindence exude. It is important to be genuine. If the guy is only thinking of your weight then you will know he isn't the right one for you. Good luck and have fun!!
2006-11-06 07:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your weight that is stopping you from asking a girl out, it is your low self-esteem. If you have a negative opinion about yourself, it will show in your attitude, and nobody wants to be around someone negative. Try to feel more positive about yourself, about your chances with girls, about the world in general.
2006-11-06 07:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
185 is NOT fat, especially for someone who is 5'7!
2006-11-06 07:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but 5'7" and 185 is pretty chunky for even a guy.
2006-11-06 07:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sarah if you are still thinking about asking Jeff out you know he is going to say no! Get over him! Talk to ya later goodbye!
And no that isn't fat!
2006-11-06 07:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Watermelon Punch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's a healthy height/weight for a girl. if you're a girl and are worried about a guy, ditch him before he decides to completely kill you self-esteem. if your a guy asking, you got issues. if you aren't attracted to girls with curves, then admit it.
2006-11-06 07:32:10 · answer #11 · answered by a w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋