A co-worker of mine was with this guy on and off for over ten years but hear he is supposed to marry someone else he's met over a year ago. I know my co-worker was still booty-calling with him while he was with this other girl. She's told us she's spoken to the other girl, and the girl confirmed that there was going to be a marriage. My friend thinks that he's coming back to her very soon. What in the hell could she be thinking. Do you all think this guy is loading my friend's head with all this bull crap or is she in denial?
2006-11-06 07:16:31 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since he is still having sex with your coworker, it is possible that he is manipulating her, but I don't think so. It sounds more like he is taking what is offered. The coworker has met the fiancee, so he must not have any problem with her knowing what he intends [wonder what the finacee found out from the coworker??]. So it is a good bet she is having a hard time saying goodbye. If you care about her, be there for her as wedding gets close and takes place, she will then be facing a true goodbye [unless she continues with him *into* the marriage]. Talk to her, she needs some reality and support too. Maybe a therapist too.
2006-11-06 07:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is getting his cake & eating it too and probly will go that way until his soon to be wife or your friend puts a stop to it. I don't think he has any intention of coming back to your friend. Men will string good sex along for as long as they can.
2006-11-06 07:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Reckless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a HO
2006-11-06 07:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋