I have never been approached by any man outside of my race and have always wondered why. I don't find myself intimidating nor do people who know me, so I don't believe that is the problem. Is there something that I am doing wrong? Is there a different way that I should be approaching this situation? I am very interested in dating a white man and any advice you could provide would be appreciated.
2006-11-06 06:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by spinningchick1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you so interested in dating a white man, anyway? Are they really that different than black men?
I doubt you're doing anything wrong at all. If you want to date a white guy, get to know some white guys... a lot of white guys. Some people are just plain intimidated by people outside of their race, even if you are not intimidating personally.
I don't know what to say, but like I said, get to know some white guys, if you're interested in one, tell them, and maybe you'll get your wish about dating a white guy. (I have to say that I think that black guys are more friendly than white guys. I pass black guys on the street and they almost always nod and say hi, but white guys usually just look at me, or smile, or ignore me totally... I'm white, just so you know.)
God bless.
2006-11-06 06:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know...I get approached by black and brown guys...so basically guys of colour...I know for sure I'm not intimidating...but I've been told..at first glance i appear to be..b/c i have a miserable look if I'm alone or tired LOL.. but I'll perch up if you talk to me...just approach them...I approached this white guy on my street who apparantly likes black girls... that's how you get things done...do it yourself...have a friend there with you if your a little bit on the shy side
2006-11-08 05:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to meet a white man, you have hang where he hangs.
Relax and let them come to you or if you see one you like, let him know. The worst he can say is "No." I happen to like it when a women lets me know she is interested, ask's me to dance or offers to buy me a drink. It tells me she is sure of herself a quality I know women love men to have.
I have a rule of thumb about dating outside of your own race; "don't date a white guy that a white women wouldn't want."
Reason for this, there are still circles within our society that dislike this. You might even have family members and friends that will not like it so, make sure the person you meet is bringing something to the table. Don't find a guy that is doing worse in life then you.
2006-11-06 15:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are many Caucasian men that are interested in dating black women, you may be looking in the wrong places, try some dating services.
2006-11-06 14:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Poker Face 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait around for them to come knocking on your door. Take matters into your own hands, find someone that you might be interested in and ask them out. I'm pretty sure that there
2006-11-06 14:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go a head appoached one yes there are many of us that dont look a race size or age heart soul mind can u ring the bell of this man no matter whate race he is? i think you can one my be here now
2006-11-06 14:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt a lil more..theres plenty of guys out there who dont look at race....just remember that everyones looking for someone at one point in time so just be patient...
2006-11-06 14:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck finding the guy!!
2006-11-06 14:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Gabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wouldn't it be better to pick your dates based on who the person is..not the color of their skin or their ethnicity? Maybe you need to examine your motives behind this a little better...
2006-11-09 12:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by space chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, sure,, how are you doing????
send me an e mail dear !!!!
good luck
2006-11-06 14:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋