in a school class, everyone pairs off quickly, romantic or friendly, for the first 2 years of grammar school, i was alone, nobody spoke to me i was just the one who was always there. Then i found 2 great friends. But they fell out over me and now i am freinds with neither. This year, i have people whop i consider friends, but i am so sczred they dont think the same way. I am timid and i hate to be the one to ask for friendship. I havnt had a girlfriend for 2 years, and the last one to ask me out was kidding and i said yes and was completely humiliated. How can i ever make more friends, to most i am neutral, but i need more- some real friends who like me for who i am. Plz help.
2006-11-06 06:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am getting a serious deja vu with this. I am 14, a girl, and this is exactly what happened to me. i go to an all girls school, and as everyone knows, girls are the bitchy ones. talking behind your back, popularity, that sort of thing. i have had no friends in yr 7, one in yr 8 for a few months but she left in yr 9, i am now in year ten and lovin it!. since i started oldham youth orchestra i have been out with 2 guys (one 3 times, fallen for him again), the other one cheated though (grr, i did the dumping) and also made loads of friends, ( i am also good friends with the one i have been out with 3 times, i did all the dumping also) join something out of school, its fun, you meet more people and you could get girls. be more social, make the 1st move and love those new friends that are waiting as we speak. this doesnt mean you cant have fun in yr (whatever you are in, if not year 10) you can join anything and make friends, be confident and SMILE
2006-11-06 07:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry it's been so rough! First and foremost,you need to build up your confidence. If you feel good about yourself,it shows and people are drawn to that. You mention that you're timid and find it hard to initiate a friendship-have you ever thought of joining a club regarding something that interests you? There you will meet people with the same interest and you can start conversations about that interest,and friendship will follow with some.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 06:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, I'm not sure how old you are but I too struggled at an early age to make friends, mainly because my father moved a lot. One thing I found really handy was to go to various evening classes, where I met tons of people. Also through work, charity clubs, local clubs, local events etc. The main thing is not to have a "best" friend. I have loads of friends now but no one is special. I do the best I can for my friends, I help them out, listen to their problems, support them in times of trouble keep in touch regularly, go out for dinner etc. and they reciprocate with me.
2006-11-06 06:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by lottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and make new friends find some other hcbbies that u interested in
2006-11-06 06:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by milkyway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you expect others to like you when you do not like yourself?
Perhaps you should change your outlook on life, and your perception of yourself can do with a change. Change is difficult to deal with but it is nessesary for progression.
2006-11-06 06:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. You need to keep trying and never give up
2006-11-06 06:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to myspace then look for local teens they might not go to your school but you might find them with simalar intrest as you
2006-11-06 06:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Juleette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know someone who is your twin and he is in my school and his name is chris
2006-11-06 07:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mi Yah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋