I've tried to stop him, hittin ghim ( he likes it - yikes!) and telling her about him, but it doesn't work. what can i do?
2006-11-06 06:38:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had this exact same problem in high school with some idiot who bothered me all the time... and i tried literally everything from hitting him to glaring at him etc etc... and the best thing to do is really just to avoid him as much as possible. i tried ignoring him but that's hard to do when he's all over you so just avoid him. he probably just gets a kick from your reaction. alternatively, embarrass him in public, kick him in the nuts, or tell all your girlfriends about him so they can give him hell too. i'm surprised his girlfriend is still with him... 0_o
2006-11-06 06:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by joiedevivre29 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you're older, you'll realize the problem with this scenario. This guy is showing no respect for you and is not comprehending your boundaries. What you never start...you never have to put a stop to. You now have to figure out a way to stop this guy. This doesn't qualify as 'flirting'....it qualifies for harassment. YOu may need to enlist the aid of another guy friend or male relative (i.e. older brother, cousin, father) to set the boundaries. If you automatically smacked the crap out of this guy the next time he touches you....he'd get the message really quickly. And consider what it would take before you would react that way....are you going to wait until he cups your boob before you draw the line? This is not 'teasing behavior' and I don't get the impression you take it seriously---are you sending signals that you like the attention? You didn't give very much information....I'm wondering about age differences, why his girlfriend wouldn't take it seriously, and why he likes your hitting him. Consider also, what messages are you sending other guys that witness your tolerating such behavior.....and why the heck are you tolerating it.
2006-11-06 06:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is typical of teenage guys or even older they have a girlfriend and get whatever they can on the side if you let them. I mean I have guy friends that are really really close friends and they have been hitting on me and asking me for favors for over 15 years and have always got no for an answer so explain that anyways the only thing to do is avoid him or stay away and definately dont respond at all but by moving or walking away dont let him know you even felt it, that just ads fuel to the fire an i'm beting you do like it somewhat for young girls its always exciting when a guy that is involved shows intrest in you its some kind of sick fetish or something I dont know but just get respect for yourself and let him know what he is doing is not ok and get a man who its just you and him and it certainly wont be one whom you already to be a cheater that would be even more stressful Good Luck
2006-11-06 06:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't want him doing these things to you, you are going to have to get his attention using anything possible up to and including a big 2 x 4 across the forehead. Make sure that he is listening - some guys don't listen. If talking doesn't work, kick him in the nuts - end of story.
2006-11-06 06:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Doug R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try yelling RAPE a few time in a row, and then tell him that if he ever touches you again that not only will you end your friendship with him, but that you will have him arrested also, and that you will be pressing charges. You must look and act VERY angry while doing this.
2006-11-06 06:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? He "smacks your butt and rubs up your thighs"? Don't tell me you couldn't stop him if you wanted to. I guarantee you that if anyone did that to me, it would be the "last" thing they ever did! He's "scum".
If telling her doesn't help, then she obviously doesn't care what he does. Hitting him isn't the answer, you need to "report" him to someone in authority.
He's "sexually assualting" you in case you didn't get it yet. Don't allow it to continue, report him.
Good luck.
2006-11-06 06:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him firmly to stop and consider finding a new friend.
Don't laugh. Don't smile. Don't play the hitting game. That game goes back to elementry school.
2006-11-06 06:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by catmoosebear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my adventure...i graduated highschool 3 years in the past,,,identity smack ladies butts each and every of the time,,because they had a outstanding butt.. and that i replaced into fascinated in them bodily,, needed somthin actual greater suitable than emotional. because of the fact i never smacked the butt of a woman that i individually needed as my gf..identity be greater severe wit her,,
2016-10-15 11:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by arshad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy obviously wants to get in your pants..the best thing you could is to tell his girlfriend about this,,and maybe if push came to shove grab his balls and squeeze it to tight,,,,that way he would learned his lesson the hard way...
2006-11-06 06:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by Diet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What he is doing is sexual assault, sexual harassment. You are allowing someone to fondle you in public in front of others? I have a feeling you like it too or you would have reported him. Don't be an idiot. Don't let a man use you like that. It isn't cute or funny.
2006-11-06 06:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋