What would you do if you got a hold to your spouses cell phone answer machine code?

Question

Ok so what if you had access to your spouses code to his or her cell phone answer machine. Now what if you guys have a great relationship, they never gave you a reason to think they were cheating. You never caught the person in a lie since you guys been together but you so happen to see them put there code in while they were checking there messages.

Would you (A) Check there messages

or

(B) Forget the code I mean they never gave you a reason to snoop.

or

(C) Keep the code in mind just in case they start to act up but only use the code if things are getting suspicious.

...What would you do?

Answer 1

(B) Forget the code, I mean they never gave you a reason to snoop. Why be in a relationship if there's no trust?

Answer 2

Forget the code! If this person has never given you a reason to doubt them then don't. When you look for trouble you find it. Plus, it's an invasion of privacy. How would you like someone listening to messages that were meant for you? Even married people are entitled to some privacy. Destroy the code before you do something you regret.

Answer 3

I would lose the code. If there is no reason to use it then dont. Chances are that if you do then there will be a message on there that you may misunderstand. Then when you approch them and you are the wrong one and they prove it to you, the trust goes out the window and things will never be the same nomatter what.

Answer 4

Well, I can't imagine what you might think you'd hear. But I know that if my spouse were to check my voicemail, she'd basically hear a bunch of messages she left me...(i.e. pick up milk on the way home, etc..)

If you think he's cheating, go ahead and check it. You'll probably be disappointed in what you hear though...yourself leaving messages.

Answer 5

I say A: check their messages i am a very nosiy person.
And in the begining you may think that everything is okay but in the end it is really bad. So it really won't hur tot snoop around!!

Answer 6

i'd forget the code cause it ain't none of my business what's in your voicemail and like everybody say what's in the dark will come to the light sooner or later i'd rather it happen like that.

Answer 7

B) you need to give people privacy and trust them in a relationship especially if it is your spouse.

Answer 8

i would 4get the code....if u think something is going on, u should just ask him.....communication in a relationship is everything

Answer 9

c

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