2006-11-06 05:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although most guys will "say" they don't like girls who don't play games...........they really do love a challenge.
In one sentence if I were to tell you how to get a guy to like you, I would say to treat him like crap.
I remember in high school I always wondered why the bitchy girls always had all the guys salivating and chasing them.......until I realized the secret.
They don't want a girl who looks at them all googly and adoring......because there is no challenge in that. The only time they want a girl all googly or adoring is if they want a quick sex fix......but don't confuse that with a relationship or actually feeling although an aroused guy will say almost anything "in the moment" to have sex.
Buy a book called "he's just not that in to you" and it will give you the "secret" to getting any guy you want.
Never call a guy
When he calls you, don't stay on the phone for hours and hours.....just talk for a few minutes and then say you have to go because you have something you need to do or someplace you are going
Have a life! Don't sit home waiting for him to call. It will peak his interest if he calls your house a few times and you are out......and don't just pretend you are out......BE OUT! Living life and having fun.
Keep your circle of friends and interests when you have a boyfriend. I have seen too many girls in my life who dump their friends and revolve their world around a guy only to be dumped soon after because he was bored.
If you don't want to bore him, then be interesting! Have a life other than him and live it to the fullest.
It's hard to do these things, and it does take will power, but if you try it just once, you will see how powerful this technique it. Just try it once!
Good Luck!
2006-11-06 06:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look sexy, tease him and look your best. Be seen by him. Let him know you're there. Get a bit close to him. not too close. he might think your desperate. If you got looks, it'll do all the work for you but if you're shy and insecure, get a friend to introduce you to him, try having light conversations with him and smile a bit, giggle when he makes a joke and always look cute. lol
2006-11-06 05:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by flipmode 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno depends on the guy... but its no good to change for a guy CuZ u can only be different for so long... find out what hez into.. show interest talk to him and tell him u like him.. imma psych major and we learned that when ur around peopel alot they become a part of ur life and u start missing tehm when tehy are gone.. so chill with him alot then suddenly disappear... or not be so abvailible.. also.. tell him u liek him
2006-11-06 05:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by joan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If he dont fall for you then it aint meant to be. Youll find someone that you wont even have to try to get him to like you. That one will be worth the wait.
2006-11-06 05:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by amanda r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him candy...or baked goods. Cash works too. Perhaps your next question could be a little more specific.
2006-11-06 06:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! The only thing you can do is be yourself and hope that he likes you!
2006-11-06 05:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being pretty and feminine.
2006-11-06 05:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him for awhile, it will make him mad..then he will srt liking u..it worked for me! good luck
2006-11-06 05:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by I wish i was invisible♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit trying so hard...
2006-11-06 05:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very vague question, but sex appeal would help
2006-11-06 05:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by theinfamousjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋