Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

When we are on the phone everynight and we are talking and every time he wants to see me he is always talkin bout having sex and i aint with dat

2006-11-06 05:20:18 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and dont plan on losing my virginity untill iam at least 21yrs old. but my problem is my g.f (we've been on and off since we were 11) says she cant wait untill we're 21and is pressuring me to give it up now. is 21 too old 2 b a virgin especially if you're a guy? im starting to have doubts b/c the oldest guy i know that is still virgin is only 18

2006-11-06 05:20:10 · 19 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Singles & Dating

Will his parents like me?... I know it's a silly question to ask but I just wanna see what your answers will be since Im guessing most of you on here are Indian? I could be wrong though.. He's 27 and Im 22.. If I were to marry him, IF, would I have to wear anything traditional in his culture or something? I know I should proabably ask him but again I just want to see your guy's feedback... and last, is there anything I should do, say, prepare myself for? any feedback is welcome.. Thanks in advance.

2006-11-06 05:19:20 · 22 answers · asked by gabsters 3 in Singles & Dating

Once and for all, we need to make a decision and stick to it!! We're getting married in March. He is still in college full time and my salary barely gets us by for the time being. Do we spend money we *hope* we will get for our wedding on a honeymoon or do we just take it easy at home and save our trip for a later date? Majority rules on this decision!!

2006-11-06 05:19:12 · 40 answers · asked by AncientlyModern 2 in Weddings

My husband and I are planning a vow renewal for our 6 year anniversary. When we first got married we did it at the court house and promised ourselves if we made it 5 years we would do it over (the way it should have been done the first time) The thing is we don't want to spend a ton of money on this thing. We found a chapel that is very reasonable and even has catering if you want it with a very nice menu. But with the cost of food being so expensive we had to cut the guest list to a bare minimum so we could feed everyone. I am really not happy about this. Do you think it would be rude to invite everyone we want to be there and just ask them to bring a dish for the reception? That way everyone we love can attend and we can all sit down to a nice meal?

2006-11-06 05:16:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because he wants to "jog in the mornings." I am not supposed to object. Is he serious?

2006-11-06 05:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by realistnola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im just wondering about whether it will be cool for a guy to talk with a gal he just met on the street for morethan 5 mins just coz he wanna ask 4 a date and phone number. I think will be boring to stay longer. really wanna know your views pls.

2006-11-06 05:16:18 · 19 answers · asked by fine boy 1 in Singles & Dating

Things that you wish he/she wouldn't do and drive you crazy!

2006-11-06 05:16:13 · 20 answers · asked by koochilly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyone ever feel like they dont care whether or not their relationship ends? its like you dont care if you talk to that person or see them or if they make you mad, you are just at the point where you say $#!& it and give up?

2006-11-06 05:15:53 · 10 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 05:15:52 · 7 answers · asked by ken 1 in Weddings

My sister is married and talking to this guy on the phone and on the net. She hasn't told her husband. She lies to go call this man, talks about how he touches this place in her that she thought was gone, he makes her happy, and etc...She also plans to meet this man in Arizona after X-mas, but she's buying a house with her husband this year. I feel that what she's doing is way wrong and he should be told. Cheating is cheating..HELP!!!

2006-11-06 05:15:36 · 17 answers · asked by geminiblue26 3 in Marriage & Divorce

"If you want more sex, then how about you be more romantic or help out more so I'm not so tired from doing everything?"
This is a form bartering for services "you do this for me and I'll do this for you".
Ideally a man and woman should be romantic and/or sexual with their spouse because they want to, but I've been seeing more and more questions from a spouse saying that they are already doing everything and still their spouse is not having sex with them.
Is it that their spouse has over valued sex and is wanting too much before putting out?
And should the spouse stop paying (ie. cleaning, being romantic, date night ...etc) until sex has returned to a more fair market value?

In a closed market environment like marriage the buyer and seller each can adjust the value of bartered services (in this case sex) easily by either with holding the service or payment.

So what should sex be worth in a marriage? A load of laundry/night out/flowers ...

2006-11-06 05:14:01 · 26 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my frend is holding a get together and this person i extremely dislike is going to be there. It will be a small group so there is no way of avoiding her! :o
she stopped being friends becoz she heard some gossip! and now we just dont talk. She doesnt appeal to me as a person and is extremely dull and superficial.. should i avoid her? It will be awkward tho!

2006-11-06 05:13:47 · 36 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Friends

My GF & I have been dating 2 1/2 years. I moved to a foreign country to be with her & when we first began dating, she said that she would like to move with me to America. But a year ago, she began a new job that she really loves & then she changed her mind about moving. At first, I thought I should just be patient and wait for her to change her mind again. But since it had been a year, I decided to talk to her about it the other day.

We used to talk about getting married & having a family, but we also haven't talked about that for the past year. The other day, I asked her if she still thinks we'll get married & she said she didn't think so. Then she told me that we are just too different. Also, she stopped saying "I love you" a few months ago, & would only say it if I said it first. But since we talked the other day, now she is showing me much more interest & she told me she couldn't sleep last night & was crying when she thought about me leaving.

What should I do?!

2006-11-06 05:13:44 · 7 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Just started to see this guy, how many times should you call him to help let him know your still intrested, and how many times not to call, so it doesnt sound like I'm being pushy..any advice?

2006-11-06 05:12:25 · 19 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Singles & Dating

i am only single child of my parent.my father is an army personal?i am not good in medical line but their are lots of opputunity in other field also.i am in interested in private jobs in comuter field? i

2006-11-06 05:12:13 · 4 answers · asked by richa_roy94 1 in Family

This is shallow, but is it possible to buy another engagment ring if you don't like the one you have? I always wanted a ring with lots of diamonds, but mine is just a band with one diamond on it. it's very plain, and i even shy away from showing people it. i have the money to buy the one i want, but how could i do this without hurting his feelings?

2006-11-06 05:11:15 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like a boy which is 1 year younger than me.He likes me too but he is really shy.And I'm afraid that if the guys at my class learn that we're together they'll tease me because he's younger.
What can I do?

2006-11-06 05:10:42 · 20 answers · asked by a8ina_4_ever 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you are with someone that makes you feel like you are the most amazing thing in their lives and treats you like a princess (50%) of the time. Yet the other 50% of the time make you feel like you are not tryinghard enough, in the wrong. Constantly question your love, your motives, and faithfulness, when reality is when things get tough and there is a row you spend hours on the phone to friends talking about the guy you are so desperately trying to love, is it a case of loving a guy that does not love me back? Same **** different person? stay or go? I know everyone has ups and downs but this is getting ridiculous, so many times I sit there and feel like a failure, yet I not the one that is not prepared to talk things through, yet then 2 days later I get flowers a meal cooked and rose petals covering the bed! confusded....... springs to mind, where is the consistancy, and I don't mean constant flowers just a bit of non roller coaster action. How can I reassure him?

2006-11-06 05:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just broke up with my love two weeks ago im feeling depressed scared alone and cant trust new people cause im scared of getting hurt is there any cure all time will heal my wound??

2006-11-06 05:09:53 · 7 answers · asked by Full M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 05:09:20 · 9 answers · asked by turnertot1992 2 in Singles & Dating

out of pity?

2006-11-06 05:08:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i tell him i want to come to his office sometimes instead of going to his other bussiness he firmly denies it and gets angry, i dont understand this attitude, shd i still go to his office or not...

2006-11-06 05:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom used to verbally and physically abuse me
and now all we get is into arguments. its been this
way for three years now. she's called counsellors
and meetings.. but they don't help.

all i want to do is to leave for a boarding school
or something. but she won't agree to it. i can't
stop thinking of leaving... even running away
i can't rent an apartment or anything. i'm only 15

what should i do?!

2006-11-06 05:06:41 · 17 answers · asked by highschoolgal789 1 in Family

I don't have too much to spend... just need some gift ideas!! Any recommendations...

2006-11-06 05:06:14 · 13 answers · asked by brienna 1 in Family

a guy ask me out the other day he tried to kiss me but that aint it he been playing with my sis, a way i dont really like, i used to like this other guy from my school so i don't know what to tell him my auncle told me he dosn't want to see me close to him what would you do in my place?

2006-11-06 05:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by gaby16andibeliverbdisdabest 1 in Singles & Dating

i hve had her a week now, i named her dolly and ever since i hve been useing her i am getting more and more fond of her.i treat her like a real g/f (not that i would know, i never had a g/f).ii buy her gifts(bought her an electric air pump), hug and cuddle her everytime im in bed. but i am getting worried that i falling in love with her,im bigining to talk to her and when i get home form work, as soon as i shut my front door i call her and say "honey, i'm home"the other night we had a serious row,i kicked her out of my bed cos she went cold on me, but after a while i accepted her back ,i can't take no omre of this ,can ony one pls advise me?

2006-11-06 05:05:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in love with my best friend for about a year now and I know she has strong feelings for me as well. When I asked her out she said she didn't beleive in long-distance b/c she had been hurt before by it. I also have feelings for my ex g/f but they seem to manifest in a much more sexual way while me feelings for my bestfriend are much more plain happiness w/o much sex drive at all. She also thinks that my feelings for my bestfriend are more of an obbsession. I don't know who to choose and go for. I feel terrible having to choose b/ceither way im going to end up hurting someone i care about. And either choice presents a missed oppurtunity. If anyone can help me decide go ahead and reply.

2006-11-06 05:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by Micheal 1 in Friends

She says im too close to him and he wont spend time with her.
She hates me

2006-11-06 05:05:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have no proof that his having or has had sex with this person. All I know is that so girl texted his phone. I'm really pissed because I had no idea of this person. I called and talked to her she said they are just friends, I asked if he ever tried anything with her she said no. I asked him the same the question he said she tried to kiss him, After she tried that he stopped talking to her. He said he told her to stop calling him, but she text him anyway. I know for a fact that they have no spoken since well aleast not on his cell phone. I check it every month. My question should i let it go or let him go. Married 7yrs 1child, never caught him in a lie before.
help

2006-11-06 05:05:22 · 23 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce