my frend is holding a get together and this person i extremely dislike is going to be there. It will be a small group so there is no way of avoiding her! :o
she stopped being friends becoz she heard some gossip! and now we just dont talk. She doesnt appeal to me as a person and is extremely dull and superficial.. should i avoid her? It will be awkward tho!
2006-11-06 05:13:47 · 36 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop stressing over it and go have a good time.
Be yourself and when the time comes just smile and be polite. If she sees you relaxed and happy and approachable she may start to wonder about what she heard and realise it was wrong. She could be nice really.
2006-11-12 23:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be civil, it will annoy her even more that you can be the bigger person, I know exactly what you mean though as I also very dislike a girl that is a friend of a mutual friend, whenever I see her I just smile and that's about all she gets from me. She too is dull, bitchy and superficial!I know it annoys her even more when I'm civil towards her cos she doesn't understand it! It's not my other friends fault that I don't like her and I always feel awkward! I'm sure they'll be plenty of other people that you can talk to and I'm also sure that there will be others there that don't like her either! Good Luck!
2006-11-06 05:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I hate it when that happens! I usually find that the nicer you are to people like this, the better the situation. So say something like "Oh I didn't know you were going to be here, lovely to see you, how are you?" she'll be so shocked that she won't know what to do. The more extra nice you are to her the more she will not be able to say anything nasty to you or about you. You don't have to like her or be friends with her just show her that you are the bigger person. Come on it's better than the two of you glaring at each other with dagger eyes all night isn't it?
2006-11-06 05:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nikki just got to the "get together" and forget about the fact that person is there. Just hold your head up with dignity and have a good time and do not give that person the privilege of spoiling your being there. Good Luck Dirky
2006-11-06 05:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so I was invited to a wedding that I really did not want to attend, the BRIDE. But after thinking long and hard, I wasn't going to go, I was going to spill a drink on her dress, you name it the hate inside was terrible. But it got to the day and I went to the wedding and do you know what gave me the most satisfaction in the whole world, walking up to her in the line up for dinner and saying hi, you look stunning, and gave her a kiss, anything she then did, in return was her being a ***** and not me.... Get the upper hand.... Even if inside, you do not mean it...... givers gain.
2006-11-06 05:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Girl of Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go - at least you got an invite.....What to do about your ex-friend, wear your best clothes, shoes and make up, do your hair nice, be polite, try and talk to her, if this doesn't work, just politely ignore her........at least she won't have the pleasure of saying 'I notice she didn't come because I am here!'
don't give her the satisfaction of thinking she has the upper hand on you - she doesn't...... Maybe you could even make up and be friends again??
2006-11-13 09:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lindan5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a really great time, dress to impress, chat to everyone, be loud be proud, laugh too much and even say hello to her with a big grin on your face. Don't let her ruin your evening....might not be easy but why let her wreck your evening. Life is too short! Giver her something else to talk about if she loves a good goss!
2006-11-06 05:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by lily b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the grown up, be civil and polite. Thats all you can be.
If you really are a friend to the person holding the get together, you'll be mature for their sake.
2006-11-08 01:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember your friend, it is their get together, is you friendship stronger than your dislike. If so be agood friend and be polite and try to avoid an atmosphere. If your dislike is stronger polite turn down the invite.
2006-11-14 01:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by rachel.cox4@btopenworld.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of avoiding her, just ignore her presence.. And make sure you look your best.. People hate to see people doing good.. Plus confidence will make your experience all the more pleasurable..
2006-11-06 05:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋