Just started to see this guy, how many times should you call him to help let him know your still intrested, and how many times not to call, so it doesnt sound like I'm being pushy..any advice?
2006-11-06 05:12:25 · 19 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As old school as this sounds, a real lady does not call. He knows you are interested simply by you going out with him or talking to him. But if he is worth your time, he will pursue you. Let him work a little harder to get you! You are definitely worth fighting for. And if he is serious and not just playing games, he will. If you appear too easy, it's not challenging enough for them and they know that they can get away with certain things. But if you carry yourself like a lady, they value you much more and respect you for it. Don't be like everyone else ... set yourself apart from the crowd. Now don't get me wrong, if he makes a move, meet him there. But let him initiate it ... does that make sense? You'll appreciate him for being different than every other guy and he'll cherish you for being different from every other girl.
2006-11-06 05:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by RiAnn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never tell with some guys. Some like there space just like us females. Yet, some will think you are not interested in them. I would wait at least two days and then call. Then you have two days of sharing what you have done since the last time you talked with him.
You and him maybe thinking of the same thing about how long you should wait to call each other.
If you don't hear from him in three days give him a call and find out what is going on. Especially if the weekend is coming up.
Good luck to you and all that happens!!!!
2006-11-06 13:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda depends on how many times he calls you. If he calls you everyday, then you should call him every other day. I'm different though. I just let them call me and maybe I will start calling them once I feel secure enough to. (which you dont)
2006-11-06 13:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 or 2 times unless he calls you more than that
2006-11-06 13:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Who Cares 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were in ur shoes, i would call him once, try to have a nice romantic conversation with him and leave him wanting more. Guys like it when girls play hard to get, but when u call too often, he wouldn´t regard u anymore.
2006-11-06 13:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only return calls in the beginning. Do not make the initial contact. If you call him too much he will think he have you in the bag. Make him work for it, even if you already like him. He will appreciate it more.
2006-11-06 13:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf loved for me to call him every day, because it helped him to know that i was still interested. it really depends on the guy. if he is very outgoing and has lots of friends, call him every other day, because he has plenty of other friends to talk to. but if he is shy, like my xbf, then call him every day. only once. he'll like to know that there is someone out there who cares about him. after a while, he'll get the hang of it. this also helps their shy problem. over time, they become more outgoing. after being with me for 6 months, my xbf has more friends, and is more out-going than he ever was before he met me. it hurts me to look at him laughing with his new friends, but im so glad i helped him.
PS if you call him every day, he won't call you every day, but not because he doesn't like you, just because he knows you're bound to call him that day. Good Luck, hope it works out. E-mail me if you have anymore questions, that way you won't have to waste five points on it. i'd be happy to help.
2006-11-06 13:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say 2 times if the phone gets cut or u cant talk in the middle, otherwise, call once, and sms the rest of the time
call when required
2006-11-06 13:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, call him let him now you are interested (and make sure he has you #). Then let him call you to make sure he is interested. If the feelings are mutual he will be calling you as much as you are call him and you won't be able to count.
2006-11-06 13:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....depends on you. Less is always more, just to touch base. I think calling too much in the beginning of the relationship shows needy-ness.
2006-11-06 13:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋