How old is 2 old to b a virgin if u r a teen guy?

Question

im 15 and dont plan on losing my virginity untill iam at least 21yrs old. but my problem is my g.f (we've been on and off since we were 11) says she cant wait untill we're 21and is pressuring me to give it up now. is 21 too old 2 b a virgin especially if you're a guy? im starting to have doubts b/c the oldest guy i know that is still virgin is only 18

Answer 1

One is never too old. Don't let the "cool dudes" influence you. You only loose it will someone you love because it is something very precious.

Answer 2

There is no such thing as too old. Lose it when you are ready. If you aren't ready way in the future you will regret it. If people around you don't appreciate the fact that you want to wait then that is a problem they have to deal with. I know I am a female, but I originally planned on waiting till marriage.... haha didn't happen....I lost it a month after I turned 18. I so somewhat regret it thought. Accidents happen so waiting wont be a bad thing either at least when you are 21 you might be more ready for something to happen if it occurs. Enjoy your youth. You are still young.

Answer 3

now now there is nothing wrong with staying a virgin. thats actually the smart move to make. do not ever have sex until U are ready. who cares what anyone else thinks. if she is pressuring u then maybe she isnt the right one for u. besides, 15 is way to young to start. although, most people do start young but that doesnt mean u have to. do it when u are ready. there doesnt have to be a certian age. u dont have to wait till your 21 unless u like to, or u can even wait longer

please trust me, ik a lot about this subject. do not do it untill u are ready and want to. email if u need anymore help

Answer 4

Hang in there. Don't give your virginity away. What better gift could you give your wife on your wedding night than the knowledge that you saved yourself for just her. You knew that she would be so perfect for you that you refused to settle for second best. You kept yourself pure so that the most precious thing you had to offer would not be tarnished when she came along. I truly believe that many of the divorces today can be blamed on the fact that people do not save themselves for marriage, and then they eand up comparing their spouse to previous sexual partners, and many times decide that the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. If you've never know that other grass, you would be happy in your own pasture.

Answer 5

NO NO NO you are never too old to be a virgin. You should never have sex until you are married and have found your partner fro life. God has blessed with the oppurtunity to have sex btu only with your spouse. I think your girlfriend needs to slow down you are way to young to be thinking abou tthat. You many things in your life that you are going to want to experinece and if you ewnd up having a child many things will get pushed to the side. I respect you for staying strong and i hope that you will continue to do that. Just please don't have sex yet you are not ready save your virginity for your wife itis the best gift you could give her.

Answer 6

You are asking the wrong question. You don't have sex because you simply believe you are too old to be a virgin. You have sex when it's the right person at the right time. Saving it is the best you can/should do. (there is a such thing as being too young)

Answer 7

OK, I'll be the one to say it - your first time can NEVER be repeated. Sex is fun, but you've got the rest of your life to play. If you hold out until YOU want to, when others say you should give in, you know you have real maturity. Immaturity is demonstrated by being swayed by others' pushing. There is no "right age" for giving it up. In my opinion - after working with couples for over a decade - more couples who wait until marriage are satisfied with that decision than couples who engage in sex before marriage. PLUS studies show that couples who co-habitate (fully) before the wedding are much more likely to experience marital strive and divorce.

Answer 8

As you get older your virginity will become more and more valuable, both to you and to girls because it is rare. Your girlfriend might be pressuring you because she thinks it will make you closer emotionally, but it won't. Especially when one person doesn't want to- it will drive you further apart. Trust me, I know.

Then you will have no girlfriend, you gave in and gave it and now you are angry with yourself. And you can't get it back- once you give it out you can't get it back. There is no do over or restart- it is gone forever.

And what happens when in a few years you find the woman that is really for you- the one that you want to spend your life with? You will wish you hadn't given in to your possesive girlfriend when you were 15- someone that doesn't really love you or is too emotionally insecure to listen to what you need and what is important to you. Cause she wouldn't be acting this way with guilt trips and manipulating you and making you feel bad for standing up for something important to you if she really did care.

It is hard to stand up for something you believe in, especially when it seems like everyone else is doing it, but there are other people out there that feel the way you do- a lot more than you think. Try to make friends with them and then you won't feel like you should give in.

The coolest guy I ever knew waited till he got married to have sex (he was 25)- he was on the football team in high school and in college and got a lot of grief for it- more from girls then guys at times. The girls saw it as a challenge- something to brag to their friends about. But, when he finally got married, his wife was a cheerleader and a model and that shut the girls right up. They knew they weren't worthy of it (or him) and were jealous of who he married.
She said the thing that made her take a second look at him (a lot of guys were interested in her) was that he stood up for what he believed in and had self control and waited. She said she wished she had.

So there is no age to be too old as a virgin, especially if you are a guy. It might be the special thing that makes you stand out in a crowd to a woman one day, instead of blending in to be with a girl right now.

Answer 9

You can wait as long as you want honey. Why is she wanting to so bad? Is she trying to get pregnant and get you trapped?

Stick to your guns. If she cares for you at all, she will respect you for it.

BTW, my husband was a virgin when he got with me. He was 22 at the time. My friend's brother was 23.

Answer 10

YOU GOT A GOOD THING GOING ON THERE it is too old to be a virgin wheh you have gotten married and it is your wedding night i remained a virgin until i was discharged from the armed forces and got hitched to my wife we are now 23+ yrs amrried and we curl up in each others arms every night