I like this guy.And I thought he liked me,because he flirted with me alot,and we talked really really long online most of the times, sometime till 3-4 am.So.. I thought i knew him.And he even gave me the heart and kiss signs sometimes as well when I logged off. This isn't quite normal because we're both asians and he's really conservative and everything.However, I never knew for sure if he likes me or not, and for my part, I really really like him.. alot... I'd been keeping my feelings inside for a long time, and suddenly, a few days ago I lost my wits and told him to come meet me and told him that I like him.And during our talk, he said he "liked" me as well..only before and not now.So I was very very down and disappointed.But I was still ok with it.Until I found out from his friend (also mine) that he lied to me and said he liked me just because he was feeling sorry for me...I..seriously don't understand what he's thinking..These days have been the longest days in my life.. help...
2006-11-06 05:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by nguyen p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either you took too long to tell him, or he backed of when you initiated because he is conservative.
2006-11-06 06:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how asian guys work. He didn't like it when you said that you liked him before he told you that he likes you, why? because asian dudes want to control everything and have the power, but since you when forward and claimed to like him, he was turned off because in his mind, it should be the other way around. Make sense?
2006-11-06 06:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old theory used to be "Girls flirt for the fun of it, but guys flirt and mean it." Recently this has become farce to me.
2006-11-06 06:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Arf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u took too then he did not feel the same so he backed out
2006-11-06 06:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by THE=GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋