im almost 18 3 months to go i have a baby but the father has sole custody what happens if i runaway and hide until im 18 what can they do when they find me after im 18?
2006-11-06 06:15:41 · 11 answers · asked by darklotusobo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
At 17 you can go on your own...but make sure its the right decision...email me at ......thick_long9@yahoo.com....I can sure my experience of beinga runaway
2006-11-06 06:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by thick_long9 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there any way that you can put your past behind you and attempt to have a relationship with the father?
Choosing not to have a relationship is very selfish - your baby deserves more. If you build a relationship with the father, your child can grow up knowing both parents. Wouldn't you want that?
Not trying to judge here, but there is someone else that you have to think about now.
There are only three more months (yeah, only right?) Hang in there. You will be filled to the rim with hormones right before and after the baby is born. Since the father has custody, you should focus on yourself and building up a good support network - people that can help you through this... Even the daddy if he'll let you.
2006-11-06 15:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jocelyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the baby is born, you will be sitting in a jail cell compliments of your defiance against the the custody order. Don't buck the system - it will buck you. Remember; in all the millions of people before, who were thinking about doing the same thing you are, and thinking they were going to get away with it - they got caught !!! Why would YOU be the exception ??? THINK about it ! It is far easier to change your life around for the better than go through life running away from it every time a problem arises. Go for counselling and you will have your start. Good luck to you.
2006-11-06 14:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
running away is not a solution to any problem. just 3 months, so you can wait and then file for legal custody of the child and finance backing from its father. go the legal way and face it upfront. no point in running away. u'll be adding more problems than u already have in hand, plus u'll be on the wrong side of law. if u go the legal way, then u r on the right side of law, and therefore have the legal backing and they'll be all for u, whereas being against law, they r all against u.
so LAW FOR U, is definitely better than LAW AGAINST U. they can get u ur child legally, plus finance backing from the father, plus the legal charges and charges for all the mental trauma that u have been undergoing so far. be brave, its just a 3 month wait, and dont run away with the child into hiding, its equivalent to kidnapping, so just wait and do the right thing legally. u'll win. good luck.
2006-11-06 14:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to run away? You only have 3 more months to wait. If you run away you are showing that you are immature and will hurt your chances of getting custody of your baby, if that is what you want.
2006-11-06 14:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait the three months and then leave. If your living conditions are intolerable and things are being done that are against the law; then call Child Protective services for your state or city. You are still a child in the eyes of the law.
2006-11-06 14:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to run away if you have a child. What if your child got very ill and the father needed to contact you regarding your child being sick. Think before you act. You don't sound very mature.
2006-11-06 14:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter how bad things are do not run away, if you have problems get help from the police or a counselor @
school/college. Running away will only create more problems, be there for your child & good luck.
2006-11-06 14:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much, but you might just jeopardize your relationship with your child. Come on, 3 months is nothing.
2006-11-06 14:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very immature, aren't you? Why don't you concentrate on growing up and being a good mother to your child?
2006-11-06 14:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋