What would you do if you got a hold to your spouses cell phone answer machine code?

Question

Ok so what if you had access to your spouses code to his or her cell phone answer machine. Now what if you guys have a great relationship, they never gave you a reason to think they were cheating. You never caught the person in a lie since you guys been together but you so happen to see them put there code in while they were checking there messages.

Would you (A) Check there messages

or

(B) Forget the code I mean they never gave you a reason to snoop.

or

(C) Keep the code in mind just in case they start to act up but only use the code if things are getting suspicious.

...What would you do?

Answer 1

If you check the messages and your spouse finds out, then things will get messy. If you have a good relationship, why take chances on ruining it. I think it does not matter what we say here, you are probably going to check it anyways. But then what, you do not find anything so you tell yourself that it was just luck. So you check again and again and again expecting to find something. It will eventually catch up with you, and you will pay dearly.

Answer 2

Forget the code! If this person has never given you a reason to doubt them then don't. When you look for trouble you find it. Plus, it's an invasion of privacy. How would you like someone listening to messages that were meant for you? Even married people are entitled to some privacy. Destroy the code before you do something you regret.

Answer 3

I know my husbands code and he knows mine. They're the same. I have never had a reason to suspect him of anything and therefor would never "check up" on him by spying. Now if I did have suspicions I'd straight out ask him if he was screwing around on me. First of all, an honest relationship is a successful one and secondly, he can't lie worth a s h i t.

Answer 4

I actually had that happen a couple of years ago....I tried just one time what I thought it was because I knew he would give himself an easy number to remember. As horrible as this sounds ( A. I checked the messages.) We didn't have a good relationship and eventually we ended up getting a divorce. I thought I had an excuse to do what I did, but my conscience told me otherwise, so I finally told him what I did. Ya know, he said he didn't care because he had nothing to hide....... Go figure that!!!!!

Answer 5

If you guys had a great relationship I would completely disregard it. If you're a snoop and check his messages every once in a while and he finds out, he'll assume (and he's right to) that you don't trust him. If you trust him, you could tell him you know the code or just completely disregard it.

Answer 6

My husband never hid the code from me... So I do know it, and sometimes Ill check his msgs, but So what... He has nothing to hide and I trust him, its more like a Im feeling insecure about myself thing, So I check it. He has always been trustworthy and I love him to death, But I dont see anything wrong with it, He knows all my codes too. Good luck

Answer 7

I know my spouses code, and we trust one another so Ive never had this problem. I wouldn't check his messages just to see if he was cheating or to catch him. Just be happy in your relationship and stop playing games.

Answer 8

if your in a good healthy relationship and you share everything..and you happened to get the code, i don't think he should really care...what would he have to hide from you??
there should be no secrets...i'd listen because i'm nosy like that... lol ..everyone has a natural curiosity rather they want to admit it or not...its instinict to want to protect what is yours..
you know if i was you, i would tell him you have it. watch his reaction,...more then likely he won't care, if he gets upset,changes the code, then worry..have a nice day :)

Answer 9

I would check it , if he has nothing to hide then he won't even care .. But then I would hang on ito it just in case I might need it down the line . But you never know what you will find if you don't look ..

Answer 10

b. forget the code. the base of our relationship is on "trust" and i won't be littled myself to be that low. and if she's cheat, it would be on her. and she would loose the best thing that she ever had.