Please help me. I’m a woman and my girlfriend and I have been together for over 10 years, with the last 2 living apart. The last 2 years have been difficult and heart wrenching for us. She has come to conclusions this last year and wants us to be together and marry. Over the summer, I realized that I’m no longer in love with her the same way I was. She’s my best friend & family and neither one of us have really any family due to tragic situations. She’s devastated and I’m having a hard time being strong. She called off work and isn’t doing well. I feel horrible. I know she deserves to be loved the way she loves. She’s wonderful and all we know is each other. She’s not strong and I don’t know what to do. I’ve already called her twice and I’m worried. Sorry I’m all over the place, but I’m so distraught. Thanks so much for taking the time to read this.
2006-11-06 06:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by Mishka R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont love her romantically anymore, thats fine, you are not obligated to love her because of your past. But she seems important to you obviously, so you can do everything in your power to get the kind of love she deserves.
First help her come to terms that you two dont have what you used to have. I think shes not the only one having a hard time being strong.
2006-11-06 06:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've recognized that she's a Wonderful person...then...how come you are not enough in love with her?, Do you really feel it?, maybe you are in love with her too as hard as she does, but you can't accept the way she really is, maybe the problem is that she's so dependable on you, her love is pure but unsecure and inmature...
Hmmm, you must take time about this....this won't solve as fast as you would like...be patient, if you have made a decision...then calm yourself and keep talking to her..., tell her logical reasons about your feelings... She need to know that loneliness is not bad at all, she must find herself... There is a WHOLE WORLD waiting for her, waiting for new knowledge, LOVE depends on ourselves...
2006-11-06 14:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by l_lvlusic_l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think u need to be honest with her cos there's no point in living a lie
2006-11-06 14:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Milo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her house
2006-11-06 14:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋