My friend played a prank on me, he made conference calls to me several times and forwarded me onto a stranger while staying silent himself - ive been clueless as to who had been issuing these conference calls for about 2 months now and ive been very honest and open with him about my suspicion that it was him
He had denied it for those 2 months and 2 days ago decided to tell me that it WAS him afterall, and provided evidence because i would hesitate to believe him
He knows i was racking my brain out to find out who it was
It was him and his friend who were listening to see my reaction to speaking to a complete stranger on the phone
i feel a little humiliated seeing as though he had used me to get a few giggles...but also because he included his friend aswel, whom i dont even know! What i meant was, his friend was listening in too and laughing at me
Thing is, i still want to be friends with him, i've stopped talking to him expecting him to apologize to me, but he still hasnt
2006-11-06 06:08:47 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is the best thing to do?
2006-11-06 06:09:08 · update #1
Ring him , give him an ear full, tell him that he hurt you, if he says sorry-- forget it all and go out for a drink
2006-11-06 06:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him how hurt you were? Or maybe can you understand it was just a joke? Are you being too sensitive? Maybe just maybe he wasn't trying to seriously hurt you. We all do silly stuff in the name of cracking jokes. If he seriously offended you, then let him know, but the silent treatment probably would never work b/c guys need you to TELL them what's going on, not make them guess about things. But if he's a really good friend, can you just get past it and move on? Or is this something that's worth ruining a friendship over? Play a joke on him, move on with life. He wasn't trying to maliciously hurt you.
2006-11-06 14:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not talking to him is passive aggressive.
He may not have noticed you are not talking to him, in which case the only person who is getting hurt by your anger is you.
Basically, call him up and tell it like it is.
I answered your last question. Is he a close friend or not? Probably close, I guess, as you still want to be friends with him. In that case you have to talk to him.
Boys are stupid. They play tricks on each other. You are not a boy. Make the thick sh*t see sense.
2006-11-07 13:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by helen g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels guilty about what he did, it is often hard to apologise when someone holds a grudge, silent treatement is kind of showing a grudge. In his eyes, to apologise now would humiliate him because he fears that you hate him too much to accept it. My advice would be to get him on his own and explain that if he is really sorry that you are willing to reconcile with him, if he doesnt apologise then trust me, he isnt worth it hun. Hope it helps and good luck.
2006-11-06 14:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Provided you weren't really spooked by the calls - and you want to stay friends - the best thing to do is 'get him back'.
One of my favourites is to get hold of his car keys and a fresh fish. Wrap the fish in tin/aluminium-foil and secrete it in the engine bay of his car. It'll stink for a while - but you'll be even!!!
2006-11-06 14:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably your friend didn't mean any harm, whatsoever he knew how distressed you felt about the whole issue, since you are friends, face him up and tell him how you feel about what happened,don't always assume,men's reasoning is very different ,best of luck,
someone once told me that 'being the first to break the silence doesn't mean that you are the weakest,it means you are the strongest,'
2006-11-06 14:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up and let him know how you feel...and if he's an *** about it and doesn't apologize...drop him...even though it may be hard.
2006-11-06 14:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by moonlight1811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he talk to you if your not talking to him?It was only a joke no real harm done.
2006-11-06 14:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by plumbob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can't trust nor waste time on such a loser unless you have no respect for yourself
2006-11-06 20:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by pottydotty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silent treatment is immature. if your friend is that much of a jerk, drop him.
2006-11-06 14:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by asslpman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋