My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. Back when we had been dating him for a month he dated another girl for two weeks they never had sex or anything just a fling. I had heard rumors about it and asked him he said it never happened I now know that it did. I love him but he has been kinda not trusting me. I will not get to talk to him or see him till Thursday. So should I break up with him or stay with him? What should I say?
2006-11-06 06:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rumors...! Are just rumors, or is it an evidence???, if you really love him and if he really loves you, talk to him, ask him to tell the truth, ask him frequently until catch him in the lie, if he's telling you the truth he will look to your eyes directly, if not, it's a lie........There is a logical argument about this if it really happened. It happend when you were dating a month ok........maybe he was confused about the feelings in that moment, he was making a decision between you and the other girl, it's hard to accept but that's the real world, in this moment maybe there are millions of people suffering the problem you have....hmmm Now it depends of you about the decision, Are you enough strong to accept his error?, Or you just can forgive a lie? A lie is always fear, he was scared to telling you the truth 'cause he really wanted something serious with you. This will take a long time to understand.,..only time will answer you best
2006-11-06 06:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by l_lvlusic_l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one! I don't know what i would do! I guess talk about it and tell him that you know its true for sure and see if he still lies to you and if he does then maybe you should break up with him!
2006-11-06 14:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when they stop trusting you is the time to stop trusting them. they are parnoid b/c they r doing something wrong and he lied about cheating which is never a good sign
2006-11-06 14:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before you do things that will make you regret later...THINK ABOUT IT TWICE BEFORE SAYING IT..
about the trust issue both of you need to make some changes....IF HE TOLD YOU NO ALREADY...TRUST HIM...LEAVE IT ALONE...CUZ YOU GOING TO WORSEN THE ISSUE...........IF YOU WANT YOUR RELATIONSHIP LAST YOU HAVE TO STOP LISTENING TO "RUMORS"...this wont bring good to your relationship..
i used to be like you...i always listen to people around me...WHO END TO BE BROKEN HEARTED NOT THEM IT'S ME.
2006-11-06 14:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning he wasn't sure if the two of you were exclusive or not so he had his options open, but he chose you so let it be - he's with you now right
2006-11-06 14:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes say goodbye verbally on the phone is good
2006-11-06 14:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-11-06 14:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO WHAT YOU THINK FEELS RIGHT
2006-11-06 14:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋