i text this lad last night saying i really liked him, and i didnt get a reply have i scared him off do u think
2006-11-06 06:35:35 · 11 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yuo did the right thing. If he got scared off, that's his loss
2006-11-06 06:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
I assume you only did that because you were expecting a good response?
Maybe he thought you were "drunk texting" and is afraid to call you on it.
Maybe he just wants you to be a bit more bold and call him now. It's kind of like saying it over an aswering machine. I'd give it another day or so and then call him casually like "how are you?" small talk small talk "did you get my text the other night? - did it scare you off?" Just be blunt - you already have been blunt once and there's no use backing off now...display confidence.
2006-11-06 14:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court now... Just be strong and don't push it. Wait another day or so, and text him again. If he doesn't answer you then, then you know you can move right along. You've nothing to lose at the moment, right? Good luck!
2006-11-06 14:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Heloise South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the text go through? How late was it? Maybe he hasn't got it yet. Either way I think it's good that you told him because if he doesn't feel the same then he can tell you and you can move on...if he does feel the same then he will tell you and together you two might be :-)
2006-11-06 14:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u didnt say anything scary like u want to be my boyfriend or something like that that puts him on the spot wait a day or two then if nothing u know he wasnt interested
2006-11-06 14:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all you can do.
You told him now it's up to him to react.
He's either not interested, or just in so much shock he doesn't know what to do, or what to say now.
Give it a bit more time, and if he doent' get to you in 2-3 days, then I don't he's interested.
2006-11-06 14:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a guy of course he isng going to text you right away.
2006-11-06 14:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have then you no longer need to spend your time on him. If you havn't then you've made the first step in what might possibly be a great friendship/relationship.
Either way congrats.
2006-11-06 14:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure a text was wise, i think telling him face to face would have been better
2006-11-06 14:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by Milo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you didn't scare him. Give it some more time.
2006-11-06 14:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋