So there was a guy whom i really liked. He is like 3 years younger than me. I was a training teacher for him. I was understanding it was wrong to like him so i just kept a distance. He left for a year. Now he is back. We teach together. He was flirting with me, like calling, messaging me all day. We used to chat all nights long about anything (mostly personal stuff). And suddenly he just changed. He is not doing all this anymore. But when i come to work he is like everything is just great. And then after not mailing me, calling me for week or so, he writes me that he thinks we didn't talk for ages. Like as if that was my fault. He is playing with me I think. 1 day he is nice and 3-4 days he is not even giving any information about himself and then he asks me to forgive him for his being mean.
2006-11-06 06:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by ALONE_GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What i really think is that, he probably met someone else, and now he is thinking who suits him more.
2006-11-06 07:15:33 · update #1
Girlfriend: there're 2 scenario's! Number 1 is he's playing you. Now I know you don't wanna hear this, but keep an open mind! He's either met someone his own age (or younger) that might not 'intimidate' him as much, or he's just being stupid. Second scenario: he really digs you, but he's too shy/afraid/clueless as to how to tell you this. (Let's both hope for your sake this is the true reason for his being distant...) Either way, keep your chin up, and your head open. Don't go losing your heart to this guy just yet... Good luck!
2006-11-06 06:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been going through something personal. Did you ever try texting him first? That might be what he's wanting. Maybe he's testing you out to see if you really like him. I think it's a cute story. One that will be fun to tell the grandkids. Good luck to the both of you and God bless!
2006-11-06 06:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just keeps throwing a bunch of mixed signals at you. Why dont you talk to him about it and let you know how you feel. If that doesnt work then i dont know what to tell u...i guess thats all u really can do
2006-11-06 06:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by shablowme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's getting discouraged because you are still keeping a bit of a distance.
2006-11-06 06:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space and time, maybe he'll realize for himself that he is doing it and he will change, if not let him know how you feel and talk to him about his behavior, if you guys are meant to be, he will change and you will be, if not don't stress and worry, everything eill still be just fine!!! good luck sweets.....
2006-11-06 06:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by ke ke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he's totally testing you... to see if you were going to call him and all that... you did the right thing not- it shows that you can exist on your own and gives you the upper hand in this relationship... he probably won't do this disapearing act again!.
2006-11-06 06:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by rachel o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was interested but now he is not sure and wants to see how u react when he stops talking to u.
2006-11-06 06:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your call but a week is too long...He doesnt sound serious
2006-11-06 06:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i could suggest.....ignore him let him realized what his doing to you....
2006-11-06 06:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋