My baby daddy was not there when our daughter was born and went to jail for a while. He just ignored me while i was pregnant and for the next 6 months after. He was really rude and immature about the whole situation. He just got back and wants to start a family with me. He is catching up with the 10 months of her life that hes missed. But i really love him and and need advice on if i should get back together with him?
2006-11-06 06:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by boysaholic15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if u think that he has really changed for good and that he is not going to look back and dump u or the child, then have a frank discussion with him and find out what is on his mind, and why he behaved as he did before. just ensure 200% that it will not happen again, otherwise be prepared for a similar situation, only this time, u will not be alone, ur child will also have to under all the trauma of separation, if history repeats itself.
so just ensure that its not going to happen again, not only for ur own sake, but for the sake of the little one too. finally both of u speak out frankly and then decide ur future. good luck.
2006-11-06 06:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by wow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be interested in being with someone who is extremely rude and immature? It seems to me that he's playing "catch" up and making lost time for your daughter, because he went to jail. I think its best that you move on with your life, because this kind of relationship isn't going to work out for the best. Good luck to you and remember, you deserve better and don't settle for anything less-especially when it comes to dealing with men!
2006-11-06 08:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it slow u can see him and he can see the child while your ckin him out cuz his track record is badd and 10 months is a very short time for such a major change go slowwww
2006-11-06 06:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tyrone H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 08:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby's Daddy my rosy red rear end this boy is nothing but a sinker stay with him and you are on the road to distruction.
2006-11-06 07:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your heart if you love him and want a family for your lil girl get back with him but if you fell like u cant do it then don't u just have to trust your heart it wont steer u wrong
2006-11-06 06:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by G Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's your choice. but you said he was in jail, rude, immature and ignored you...why would you want to be with him? talk to him and let him know he needs to grow up and treat you and daughter better.
2006-11-06 06:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two want to make a go at it, great. My only suggestion is to TAKE IT SLOW! This way, if it doesn't work out then you don't have to put your daughter through any of his mess.
2006-11-06 06:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by mvngs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he's grown up any? What has changed since he was acting rude and immature?
2006-11-06 06:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reread your letter but pretend its 22 years into the future and its your daughter asking you this question.
What would you tell your daughter to do??????????????
2006-11-06 06:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by danzka2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋