I love my boyfriend of 5 years. We are not married and not engaged at all. He say he is commited to me and I know for a fact that he loves me too, but why does he look like he lost feeling for me? I am sad because he look sad when I ask. he say there is nothing wrong and it is been a month or two and it is the same. He don't talk to me ask much or say he love me as much or even show me that he love me. He doesn't do none of that anymore. He even chat with girls on line but he say is nothing. I am sure he not cheating because he is always with me. I think I am the cause of his sadness. I feel he lost feeling for me. Now I am miserable. and I told him how I feel but he say I got nothing to worry about. BUt I know my bf for a long time and I think he say that to make feel happy cuss I know he love me to much to hurt me so he seem to rather feel sad himself than to see me sad . What should I do? I want him to be happy I can do anything to make him happy.
2006-11-06 06:34:39 · 12 answers · asked by Un4getableAsianGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is he chatting online with other girls if he loves you so much? It sounds like he is not as committed as you would hope him to be.....
2006-11-06 06:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing you can do is believe in him. it sounds like he's sad because of you asking him about his feelings for you. it sounds like he does love you. distance tends to happen if you let the relationship get stale, even if your not married or engaged, after 5 years it can be easy to fall into a rut. try to find a way to fall back into 'first' love with each other, and work every day to make each other feel special. let him know you still love him, and not just with words. make sure your actions back up what you're saying. things should work out between you two. good luck!
2006-11-06 14:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by a.n.a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats happened to me before dont let it stress u if u have faith in ur realtionship then fight for it i remember when it happened to me i was so sad i thought it was my fault and i was kissin *** tryin to get back good wit him but it ended up not workin out thats just how it happens sometimes maybe yall need a break dont break up just split aprt for a while
2006-11-06 14:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by G Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is wonderful, be honest and sincere with him and let him know how u feel, if your r feeling some pain well, he is too, maybe it is time for a change of heart. maybe there is someone else.?? it is time to question your love one find out what is going on inside!!!
2006-11-06 14:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by mehecana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI you
I would tell him how i feel about him because you might loose him
if you say youl ove him you doont wont that do you tell him how you feel because see will it change if it dont ask him what can i do to get you to like me agian?
2006-11-06 14:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Darlene B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask again if he says the same he's been saying tell him that you don't know where everything went. Maybe a one if those relationship helpers,therapists, or whatever you can call them should be involved.
2006-11-06 14:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by ladyranger4348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Make sure he is happy with your sex life. Make sure you do not annoy him or nag him.
If he has lost feelings for you i is because of one of those reasons
2006-11-06 14:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are smothering the poor guy to death. maybe he is dealing with a personal problem he does not want to share, maybe he is suffering from depression, the whole world does not revolve around you.
2006-11-06 14:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you love him and maybe rent a movie and watch it together. Then, maybe buy him a gift.
2006-11-06 14:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by Southernchick21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well then maybe if come happy maybe he will see you happy and then he will be happy,suggest do something that made you happy and do it together
2006-11-06 14:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by mrl53104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋