I have this guy friend that I introduced to my group of friends me and him had something going on but because my brother and him were best friends I never really wanted to take it any futher plus I didnt like him all that much. So my best friend I found out by him has been seeing him and even had sex with him already and I dont care but why is she keeping it a secret and telling me he is ugly when I told her a couple of weeks ago I wouldnt care. On top of everything she has a boyfriend already who she plays all the time but thats none of my buisness until she brings me into it and her bf is calling me asking me what's going on with this guy and her. Im telling him I have no clue and he is screaming at me over this. I dont understand why she doesnt come clean and tell me the truth Im sopose to be her bestfriend especially if her bf is going to be calling me like if I did something and telling her bf Im the one that's with this guy she's really with.
2006-11-06 06:26:02 · 18 answers · asked by lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What gets me more mad is this guy my friend I introduced her too. Told me the truth and Im not even his bestfriend he told me because he said he knew I wouldnt care and it was messed up that it was all a big secret for no reason. Oh and he calls her all the time and her bf always queestions me telling me why does he call her so much and since I found out today all this time Ive been clue less why.
2006-11-06 06:27:57 · update #1
She is using you for excuses,your her ticket to get around him.She knows that your her best friend and want say anything.Get away from her,if she is doing it to others shes also doing to you. She is not to be trusted.Run ,before she gets you in trouble.You will thank me later own.
2006-11-06 06:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't trust you. For whatever reason she doesn't want to tell you because she doesn't want you to tell her bf. If she really likes this new guy she needs to tell her bf and you the truth. Its not up to you and you need to tell her bf to stop calling you because whatever is going on isn't any of your business and your friend has made it clear she doesn't want you to know anything. He should be calling her and asking her these questions, not you. And you should just out right tell her you know and that you're upset because she hasn't told you even though you've asked her straight out. Ask her what you're supposed to think when she does stuff like that.
2006-11-06 14:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't quite understand all of that but what I can tell you is that the second a friend is no longer being a friend then you have to make a choice to walk away and let her be. I've sent plenty of friends out of my life because they stopped being my friend. It's ok to do that.
2006-11-06 14:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs to stop playing games with her boyfriend and that guy she dosent really want either of them if she did she wouldnt be doing what she is doing.so if her boyfriend calls tell him so he can move on and let her know u know about the other guy so that if she wants to ask your advice u can tell her what u think.
2006-11-06 14:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that your best friend didn't tell you about it, so it wouldn't get back to her boyfriend. If he asks you about it, just say talk to her. Why get in the middle of things?
2006-11-06 14:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth and tell your girlfriend to stop cheating, Tell him to call cheaters and bust her himself. Otherwise invite himopver while they are together. By the way your hot!!!
2006-11-06 14:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a new circle of friends.
2006-11-06 14:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your Friend is a complete whore!
I like her already.
Birds of feather.
Punctuate.
2006-11-07 13:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first things first you should talk to your "best friend" and find out why there doing this then maybe things would make sense
2006-11-06 14:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Isaiah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant be sure This is so confusing...she doesnt sound like a thrill for a friend
2006-11-06 14:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋