My boyfriend tells me he loves me and i know he does because he is nothing more than sweet to me. He's always there for me and i just know..BUT how can i stop myself from being so insecure about this relationship. I mean i do love him but i keep having thoughts that he will some day soon leave me. Yeah i've talked to him about it but he always says never...its still in the back of my mind though...How can i avoid these thoughts?
2006-11-06 06:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just quit........... if he's going to leave you then he wouldve already dont worry about the future live in the moment...
Best of Luck
2006-11-06 06:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its in the back of your mind then leave it in the back of your mind, if you love him then its because you have trust and communication. You should never feel insecure about a relationship. Once you have a doubt then you always have a doubt. The relationship goes no where after that.
2006-11-06 06:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by ghettostar882003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those thoughts will always be in the back of your mind it just apart of being in a relationship. there will always be thoughts of insecurity
2006-11-06 06:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by J-dot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, his attitude is all you can go by. If he seems like a decisive kind of secure guy, then keep him. If he's uneasy and just kisses up to you than you may need some time to think.
2006-11-06 06:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called self essteem essteem your self buy you something and request more thing this will keep him busy and out of the street if its true that he love you the key word is hes at the back of your mind whos at the front so is it a crime no its not love you and things will fall where they may if not then you shall fall out of the picture
2006-11-06 06:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by alvistodd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart he's probably lying if your getting that strange vibe about him leaving you, or maybe the relationship just needs a break.
2006-11-06 06:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie4098 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a hard one to answer only you know what will make you not feel insecure. it maybe your woman's intution telling you something.
2006-11-06 06:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by 1 luvly LEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's your commiment to the relationship you are worried about and not his.
2006-11-06 06:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by mahree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋