2006-11-06 06:31:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, just like we fantasize about the same girl.
It's because you can't/don't have them. If you did, the mystery and fantasy would evaporate.
Because no one is as perfect as they seem when we actually get to know them.
2006-11-06 06:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you can't have him that you continually fantasize about him. Once you set your sights on someone else or someone else sets theirs on you, this will go away.
Watch "Gone with the Wind" and see how Scarlett keeps trying to win over Ashley, a man she cannot have. Eventually, she ends up alone.
2006-11-06 06:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...until someone else comes along and gets your attention, it's quite normal to fantasize about someone you dig (even if you cannot be with them)...
Just make sure you keep reminding yourself it is just a fantasy...don't allow yourself to start thinking things will change (unless you realistically know that is possible)...
2006-11-06 06:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its normal. But you're probably only fantasizing about him because you can't have him.
2006-11-06 06:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing wrong with those thoughs, many men do the same when thinking of super-models, etc. However, the fantasy should never take the place of the real relationships that you have with your boyfriend.
2006-11-06 06:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally thats why people fantasize about things, cuz they can't have it.
2006-11-06 06:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have different fantasies, and some tend to be surrounding the same situations, or person in your case. Mine is about 69
2006-11-06 06:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaa! of course your always going to like the person you cant have. but dont stress your self over it. give it time. and if he doesnt notice you right away dont get discourged i mean he may or may not like you. maybe he is waiting for you to talk to him or you to tell him you want to get to know me. but maybe he just sees you as a friend but dont bum your self out over it. its a guy. they arent that cool. and worth your hurt and pain. and if it doesnt happen it isnt ment to be! <3 me!
2006-11-06 06:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by p.dizzle :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes everyone FANTASIZES about people they can't have
2006-11-06 06:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it all the time-normal? I know I am not.
2006-11-06 06:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by cayusecrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋