Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

I still like my ex. We only went out for 10 months, but we were in love, and we were in a much too mature relationship for our age (15 n 17). In the end I think he got scared of the commitment which you know is fair enough i took it with a good humour even made him laugh when he was in tears dumping me. 2 weeks later in a bed (tho didnt sleep with) another girl. Went out with her. Made me so mad. When i FINALLY got over him and forgave him, he was tired of her (4ish months?), and i took pity on him. While we were going out we were best friends ontop of everything n it carried foward. We started flirting. Then at a friends party we made out. Since then i been up to 4th base again with him, and we were practically like we were. And i knew it was silly but i did it anyway. I dont think he meant to use me. Now hes at uni, i miss him terribly, he has seen his WH*RE ex who i loathe, and he hasnt wanted to see me...i cry hysterically every lunchtime. Hes my m8 but hes not worth this, help...

2006-11-03 07:16:07 · 4 answers · asked by mdquoth 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a guy who is quite happy with dating and casual relationships.

2006-11-03 07:15:39 · 25 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3 in Singles & Dating

When we were together he wasnt all that good of a boyfriend but i saw that he changed and i want to give us a second try. So how do i tell them that? how can i get them to say it'll be okay? HOw can i get them to trust us again? Please HELP!!!
Thanks
VickI

2006-11-03 07:15:10 · 9 answers · asked by *inFamOUs* 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it when ever you treat a woman nice they will leave you but than you look at the ones that treat them like $hit and they love them to death

2006-11-03 07:15:09 · 4 answers · asked by B 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

Additional Details

21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-03 07:14:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 07:14:08 · 24 answers · asked by K W 3 in Family

He sees you and he acts very nervous around you, but so do you. You don't believe that a relative of his would approve? What would you do? Would you date him, if he gave you the opportunity?, or what would you suggest. He doesn't know, but neither do I. Everytime he comes around me I get butterflies in my stomach, I smile, I get nervous, etc. His eyes tell me something, but I am unsure as to what exactly they are trying to tell me. Also, I dream about him for weeks at a time, after I see him. Please help me.

2006-11-03 07:13:58 · 12 answers · asked by eleichtner 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for over 8 yrs. Taking the next step was well over due.Her father and I have had our problems like all do. Last year I broke it off because the relationship was not moving forward. We respect and love each other but the writing was on the wall we wanted different things for our life. Surprisingly he asked me to marry him.
I thought his daughter and I had a good friendship,no problems. She has always lived in another town, he sees her often, paid for college, all living expence he is a great father. She was married a few months ago to a good man. She is happy, so why does'nt she want her father to be happy as well. This has shocked and hurt me beyond words.
Looking back I had only visited a few time and have not spent a great deal with her. Her father is talking to her about it. He is upset and in the middle of this.
I love him but, I have my own issues now. This has come between us and I don't know how to handle it. Can it still work? I almost want to walk.

2006-11-03 07:13:49 · 6 answers · asked by wallflower 1 in Singles & Dating

I just kept yelling and saying filthy names to the tree. I only hit the tree once, because it hurt my hand when I hit it. Then we started to talk things over, and we had a good cry. But our neighbor saw the whole thing, and went inside their house. I was so ashamed I ran back in the house. But the tree just stood out there stupified and didnt know what to do.

2006-11-03 07:13:13 · 21 answers · asked by Casey 3 in Friends

My boss is also my neighbour and she has fallen out with my parents over my little brother, as he and her son don't get along. She told me today that is is very upset and annoyed with me as i didn't tell her that her son wasn't invited to a halloween party at my house on tuesday. I have to work with her tomorrow and am dreading it! I usually get the bus to work with her and she also said she didn't want to do that anymore, but then changed her mind 2 mins later! after this my mum was annoyed as i was upset and went along to see her! What should i do?!

2006-11-03 07:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by Jo 1 in Friends

2006-11-03 07:12:38 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend, a goth girl, says that she used to go out on the weekends, friday and saturday night, and during the party or whatever she would usually at least kick one guy. She did this over a three year period. 50 weeks a year, 3 years ... is nearly 150 guys!!!!!! She stopped of course because when the last guy recovered he walked calmly up to her and then kicked her button as hard as humanly possible. She said she wouldn't kick any more guys after that. I asked why .... because its not fair that it hurts that bad....

2006-11-03 07:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 07:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by M J M 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl that one of my guy friends is dating (living with actually) does not want him to see or speak to me...low self-esteem issues. Now, she is just being a total *****! We are all 30, but the 15yr old in me just needs to do something! Something that wont hurt her physically of course, but just something to really piss her off. BTW...she lives two hours from where I live...any ideas?

2006-11-03 07:11:27 · 6 answers · asked by question33 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive got this friend which I have deep feelings for. He had to move away for work, and weve kept in touch through email. I get frustrated and lonely because we dont spend anytime together anymore. Emails just doesnt cut it. I feel like a wuss talking about how I miss the good times. He never says anything back, or even talks about how he misses me. So I decided to stop responding altogether, and wait awhile. Today, after three days of No response from me. He asked--IF I was still around! ... Should I write him back or wait more.. Does this mean that he misses me and just dont have the balls to admit to it?

2006-11-03 07:10:49 · 17 answers · asked by dustin m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-03 07:10:25 · 27 answers · asked by D K 1 in Singles & Dating

well actually i dont know but my girlfriend's friend tells me that my girl knows that i smoke....but see i know that she knows but i told her i stopped, AND I DID STOP!! haha but i keep thinking she ight break up with me because she doesnt like smokers and she thinks that i still do smoke...wat do i do??? and my gf's friend also says that they have proof but i dont know wat theyre talkin bout....HELP???

2006-11-03 07:10:20 · 7 answers · asked by KRAYZIEBONE 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 07:09:33 · 10 answers · asked by azka a 2 in Friends

going to freshen up?

2006-11-03 07:08:32 · 40 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

As a young blk woman i wanted to know why aren't there alot of blk women willing to date whte men?

2006-11-03 07:08:17 · 26 answers · asked by Yama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 3 years almost to the day we got married. Just got hitched in April, it seems like every week something happens to set one of us off. We blow up at each other for an evening and then end up not talking to each other for days. (I'm a 9-5'er, he works 2nd shift so we dont see each other a lot anyways) The thing is that we were fine before we got married, we were loving and listened to each other. Now it is hard to even get through a weekend without something happening. Is it a bad sign that we may need counceling already??? We are newlyweds, isnt life supposed to be bliss, chasing each other around, giggling, romance? I feel like we are an old married couple that can barely stand each other.

2006-11-03 07:06:53 · 24 answers · asked by Shannon M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

bad a$$ed and have stinky attitudes. coz they too proud of being good looking and have too much pride in them? i realised this from many yrs of studying frm school to college to university. it happens all the time. i guess u cant have everything in the world.

2006-11-03 07:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

i want to know what you guys think

2006-11-03 07:05:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old and married now for 4 months to my husband who is 24 yrs old. We dated for 6 months and i felt so in love with him that when my parents told me to never see him again and he proposed marriage that i married him 2 weeks later.We met when i was sneaking into a NYC club and he was helping to promote for a record company.He helped me and my 3 friends get in.The first 2 months of being married were great but i am a freshmen in college now and feel caged.He travels a lot to promote and is always at clubs and sometimes i now he goes out to strip clubs with his friends he calls it buisness.We live in NYC right now and it was an adjustment for me because i am from NJ but now he wants to move to Houston for a little while and he did not even consider i might not want to go!How do i cope with his job?

2006-11-03 07:05:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told my boyfriend I was virgin at the very beggining because i wanted to see if he was in it just for the sex or for ME. He lost his virginity at 15 too, so that made me even more scared that he would just use me for sex. However it turns out he really likes me and is willing to wait as long as it takes.. I am going to tell him that i lied about my virginity...what do you think his reaction will be? I did it to ptorect myself.. guys would you understand?

2006-11-03 07:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 07:04:37 · 3 answers · asked by yates1stlady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay im 15 and met this sexy boy on halloween night!Weve been goin out since then and weve seen each other everyday since then!!
However on wednesday night me and my mate rang them and asked them to come down and meet us at her house after eleven.He and his mates said no,then he said well ill come down if you giv me a b*** j**!!I said i would just to get them up!!!
I didnt give him anythin and im not plannin on either!!!
Now since then hes been askin me to do stuff that i dont wanna do,i told him i wont and he said i no im only messin but i no hes not.Im only 15 and wouldnt do anythin that hes askin me.
I really like him and love hangin round with him and his mates are really nice too,the only thing that pisses me off is that he keeps goin on bout it!what should i do????

2006-11-03 07:04:34 · 6 answers · asked by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 in Singles & Dating

Has it generally been an organic process, letting the friendship grow unhelped & unhindered out of whatever situation & interaction existed anyway?

Or have you cultivated your friends more deliberately, seeking out individuals you think you'd like and intentionally starting conversations, & arranging to meet, etc.

Or has it varied?

Also, how would you characterize the quality & quantity of your friendships?

Just a poll. Not looking for advice. Share interesting details as you wish.

2006-11-03 07:04:07 · 22 answers · asked by John's Secret Identity™ 6 in Friends

I talk to this cute spanish girl sometimes. When she texts me she calls me papi. Does this mean she likes me?

2006-11-03 07:03:39 · 10 answers · asked by Tool7 3 in Singles & Dating

How should i tickle her?

im seventeen;shes ninteen

2006-11-03 07:03:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating