Family & Relationships - 3 November 2006

i have a bad past that i regret but think about everyday and it makes me feel sick. i slept with people when i was so young and i've done things i would now call slutty but i dont know how to cope with it and its killing my relationship with my boyfriend.

2006-11-03 06:34:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds really weird but i hate my best friend. she annoys me so much - everything she does and says. She is embarrased about everything - even picking stuff up she dropped, when i drop something accidentally she says stuff like "o that was smart" really sarcastically, she makes mean comments about my height (i'm kinda short) and my hair (blonde), she is obsessed with shoes and make up and wears like high heels all the time, just to make me feel short, she's so spiteful and complains all the time. I know most of the stuff is sarcastic and is meant as a joke but it hurts me and it annoys me too. i want to break friends with her but i'm scared she will say mean things to the other girls in my class so that they wouldn't be friends with me either! What should i do?

2006-11-03 06:33:58 · 29 answers · asked by cat_lover 3 in Friends

Do u like virgins??
for the first time in my life, i met a guy who doesn't like virgin girls... i thought is was sooo strange! what's ur opion?? u guys into virgins, or no? why?

2006-11-03 06:33:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I i am going out with someone (johnathan) and he is like a bestfriend and a boyfriend but some of my friends say he flirts with them and all of my friends like him. i can trust him because all of his guy friends are my friends and most of them i trust more than my own friends and they say that all he talks about is me and they say he would never do something too hurt me. who am i to trust???

2006-11-03 06:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by roker_baby_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a five-year ex girlfriend, very pretty, small bulit, stay together but she is definitely not those ... got a boyfrd now. Broke up just after army when working two jobs, hoping to quickly complete degree and save for marriage while studying too. Had been 1 year+, still trying very hard to get new life without her. dun understand why do not have the heart for other nice pretty girls. I feel very weird not even for 1nite stand... My heart is not dead, I got career and just still cant live with just my good buddies. pls advice

2006-11-03 06:33:10 · 1 answers · asked by vic 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a gf that is chinese in france, she has a valid passport but the visa is no longer valid, in france to get married you need to deposit many documents with the police and mayors office. And wait, and wait, many months for the ok.

my question is do you think the authorities will reject the application because one of the parties is with no papers

2006-11-03 06:32:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has an online friend that wants her to fly to visit him across the country. He doesn't want her to talk about him to her family or friends. I think it's a bad idea, but she says they are "soulmates" and she wants to go visit him.He refuses to visit her, meet her family or friends, or "allow" her to bring someone with her to visit. He also does not want her to stay in a hotel, and says that is a waste of money. I am the only person she has told about this, she is afraid her mom will not let her go, even though she is legally an adult.

2006-11-03 06:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by emiannlee 1 in Friends

2006-11-03 06:32:29 · 9 answers · asked by sinnerklp 1 in Weddings

ok here's the details. got married 3 months, 2 weeks post honeymoon a family member becomes deathly ill and takes away our thunder. a month later she starts cheating on me. it's been happening for a month and a half and i have detailed records of it all. i've confronted her about it and she denied it all. i gave her some details of what's going on and she knew that i knew so she fesses up.

She blames it on me that the relationship has been bad, but i feel that we only had 6 weeks before she started cheating so i don't feel like she gave the relationship enough time to work.

should i cut my losses and move on or take her back?

2006-11-03 06:32:22 · 28 answers · asked by Mario T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 3 years. There have been occasions where my wife has been disobediant. When these events happen I give her the following two options from which she must choose one:
Be forced to sit in our unfinished basement (that has been known to have bugs) in the dark for 3 hours OR received 20 whippings with my belt. Can you believe that 9 times out of 10 she chooses the whippings?

2006-11-03 06:32:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

confused

2006-11-03 06:32:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..when you shouldn't, I mean someone stubs their toe, gets hurt, looks weird and you just couln't stop belly laughing right in their face?,You feel bad, then upon thinking about it start laughing to yourself even harder? Or am I just mean?

2006-11-03 06:31:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like, a woman maybe well indeed be overweight or fat, but her husband will say shes not (even though he knows she is) and will encourage her to eat more or say she doesnt need to exercise (I dont mean men saying it to them so they dont hurt there feelings either) Is it possible a man says that stuff so she is unnatractive to other men???

2006-11-03 06:30:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't get that.

2006-11-03 06:30:19 · 3 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Friends

Okay heres the story:On halloween night i stayed in one of my best mates house.My other best mate was supposed to be stayin' with us but she wasnt aloud because there was no room in the house.
Me and my mate went out that night and found out that our friend who was supposed to be stayin with us was callin us sneaky bitches etc so we called her a tramp etc.
The next day she rang us and burst out into tears on the phone.She said she was walkin down an alley way when two men attacked her,she hit her head off the wall and is now in hospital.The 2men raped her.She is only 14,she didnt tell her mam and is now stayin in hospital because of injury to her head.What can i do???my other friend and me feel like its our fault because she wasnt with us that night when she should of been.If she hasnt told her mam how can she report it to the guards??Plz help.thanks

2006-11-03 06:30:11 · 4 answers · asked by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 in Friends

they break your heart... mess ya around!! is it really worth getting upset about them???????????

2006-11-03 06:29:56 · 28 answers · asked by hineycone1987 2 in Singles & Dating

have been living with my aunt for about 2 years now but she dont understand me still, she and her husband always say bad things about me to their friends and kids behind my back. till one day, one of their kids was telling what she heard her parents saying about me when i was not around. now am in college and i need help but they wouldnt help. i dont no what to do should i move out or should i stay believing every thing will change for good.

2006-11-03 06:28:46 · 9 answers · asked by helen l 1 in Family

2006-11-03 06:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by Nunya 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we have together for a year and its been amazing and keeps getting better. He was in a 2 year relationship before me and she screwed him over and left him for his cousin (after cheating on him for a few months). we recently had a talk about how we feel about each other. iknow he loves and cares about me but he said he does trust me but its just that he doesnt trust girls in general and never wants to get hurt again. so he basically told me he was scared to get closer to me and was never going to let himself get hurt again. I don't know what to do i would never hurt him cheat on him i love him with all my heart and want him to see that and let that wall down. i feel stuck and don't know what to do cause i want to be with him for the rest of my life but im scared he will never completely open up and let himself get close to me. what do you think i should do?

2006-11-03 06:27:06 · 17 answers · asked by bob123456789 2 in Singles & Dating

Key issue is cost abd quality. Trying to get a balance of both. Who should I turn to online or retail store etc.

Looking at something about 1 karat and between D-G, and IF-VS2.

Princess, or Emerald.

Who should I tunr to?

2006-11-03 06:25:49 · 18 answers · asked by sedaine 2 in Weddings

I guessing yes but here is some of the things he does...

We talk every day and almost everyday on the phone
He is always telling me his life plans
He stood behide me and helped me in a sport
He is always jokin with me
And the past couple days he has been talkin about when he gets older how he is taking his friends to california.....get this......HE INVITED ME!!!
He also says once I get there that I will love it so much I will be living with him
We are friends and it is a long time until we will be goin to cali.....he said when we were in the 11-12th grade and I'm in 8th now.
He says stuff like my mom thinks were goin out...
I really need an answer and what should I do? I think I like him a lot.... oh and did I mention he is my bff ex?

I really like him.

2006-11-03 06:25:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-03 06:25:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-03 06:25:11 · 8 answers · asked by hello! 1 in Singles & Dating

brain damaged...and the other side of the family said.."we are unable to care for him. we have children...."...Now if, if she were to leave she will get CRITICIZED by religious groups and other people that have NEVER WALKED IN HER SHOES...to PROTECT HERSELF AND HER CHILDREN...from judgment...would she be better off to say...' HE WAS IN A FATAL ACCIDENT"....and if the person asks other questions...just say..."i don't relive it"...because how is she going to be able to MOVE ON from that painful time???or just say...when asked...."it just didn't work out?"...what is best for her, because she is in the situation, not THEM??? I know 50% would stay and 50% would leave...Plus it is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS...she knows i am on the internet and will NOT REVEAL HER NAME...I AM HER BEST FRIEND...she would have to put him in a state home...there is no money...and she is in her 20's...THE OTHER SIDE OF THE FAMILY DOES NOT WANT HIM...IT IS TOO MUCH OF A BURDEN FOR THEM...

2006-11-03 06:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's rather hard to gauge this, and maybe it's something you can't simply word as "how long would it take..." but if you could generalize it or maybe share from personal experience, please do share. And are there signs that she may give to you that indicate that you are that person for her or maybe even signs/things she may say that indicate that you are not that person for her?

2006-11-03 06:23:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We keep getting closer and closer and she pulls herself back. We care for each other a lot and are able to express that, but I need to feel like she can initiate these expressions, too, and I am starting to have doubts. We have talked about her reluctance and she simply says she's always been like that with relationships. I want her enough that I am tenative to issue an ultimatum, but I don't know how else to get through to her that I need to know how committed she is and that she needs to not only figure that out, but let me know in more ways than just telling me. Any suggestions?

2006-11-03 06:23:09 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

They go to dating sites trying to meet people and the crazy part is they pay monthly to use these sites and some people just settle for the first person even if they dont like them because they think they will grow to like them. Why dont they just wait till they just meet someone when they go out or in school ect. why do they look for it so much. Im just curiose and wanted to know because Ive had friends like this and never understood. I have a boyfriend but I never payed or went crazy wanting one or looking in websites I was having fun single and loving life and met guys but never hooked up till I found someone I really liked.

2006-11-03 06:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by lola 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi all. I need help, or just some good ideas for special present. My friend's birthday is after a week (17 birthday). She doesn't need cosmetic, porfumes and I can't choose clothes, so... it must be, I want it to be something different, that will impress her, something that she will remember. And do you think, that a photo of me and her in e beautiful frame is siutable? If it help - she is sociable, smily, beautiful, elegant, clever and thin and tall :)

2006-11-03 06:23:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

betven 25- 35

2006-11-03 06:22:58 · 8 answers · asked by MUTANT 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship with this guy, and he would pester me for sex, sometimes nonstop, and I would tel him no, but then he would start to kiss and grope me even though I would push him away.. eventually I would give in and I would feel dirty afterwards. I still do feel humiliated, and disgusted with myself, and worthless, which I read happens after rape. I tried telling someone a while back why I was sad, but she was a "mutual" friend of his, and said that he wouldn't do something like that and that I was over-reacting. She told everyone I was making things up, and I lost alot of friends in the process. That guy is long gone, but there is someone new that wants to take me out, and so far has been a perfect gentleman, and I think I should tell him why I've been skiddish to go out with him, but I'm scared the same thing will happen again. (the laughing). My questions are, was I over-reacting w/ the last guy, and how do I tell the new guy what happened without crying all over?

2006-11-03 06:22:52 · 35 answers · asked by crazypantsmcgee69 2 in Singles & Dating