have been living with my aunt for about 2 years now but she dont understand me still, she and her husband always say bad things about me to their friends and kids behind my back. till one day, one of their kids was telling what she heard her parents saying about me when i was not around. now am in college and i need help but they wouldnt help. i dont no what to do should i move out or should i stay believing every thing will change for good.
2006-11-03 06:28:46 · 9 answers · asked by helen l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to have a sit down talk with your relatives, don't just leave that won't help anything, In life you need to speak your mind and express your needs to people who are willing to help you in the long run, not ruin your feelings about how you want to live life. Just talk to them, they are family.
2006-11-03 06:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out as fast as you can! Why would they even talk about you behind your back. They are adults and your family members. Have you tried talking to them? Maybe your aunt is jealous of you (as silly as that may sound) and she is trying to make everyone else think you are a bad person. People like that are sick and can't be helped. If it has been going on this long, it won't stop anytime soon. I was in this situation with a very close family member of mine!
2006-11-03 06:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky Dinky Doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could move out you should. It's not fair that you have to live in conditions like that to began with. If they don't receive you now what makes you think they would a year from now? What has been done is done. God will help you if you ask Him for help. God bless you.
2006-11-03 08:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you need to move out. How dare they talk about you behind your back! If they have a problem with you then they should have said something to your face! Screw them. Family isnt all its cracked up to be. Trust me I had similar issues with one of my aunts she trashed talked me and my parents but she did it to my face. I suggest you just move out and never look back. God bless you!
2006-11-03 07:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if things haven't changed in 2 yrs, i don;t believe they are going to any time soon so my advice to you is to move out on your own so you don't have to deal with the stress.maybe try to move to the dorm are find a roommate type apartment.good luck and don't let them bring you down you sound like your doing very well for yourself. good luck and stay strong and keep thriving...
2006-11-03 06:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by juicy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move out. They defintly don't understand you, and even talk about you behind your back! Maybe you can try to talk to them again if you don't want to move out, tell them that it annoys your etc. At least you can move out if it doesn't work.
2006-11-03 06:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by noniken123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a student loan for college,
(be sure to major in something that will support you if you were to live by yourself)
move in a dorm
and get away from those jealous family members
2006-11-03 06:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by go4itgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am curious why they don't understand you, but I agree with everyone else (move out).
Aside from all that, remember that their opinions of you are just opinions, and don't let that affect the rest of your life. (Other people's opinions of you are none of your business!)
Good luck
2006-11-03 07:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by buddha bill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO YOUR OWN THANG IF THEY CAN'T EXCEPT IT THEN SCREW THEM
2006-11-03 06:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by CUTIE BATOOTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋