I i am going out with someone (johnathan) and he is like a bestfriend and a boyfriend but some of my friends say he flirts with them and all of my friends like him. i can trust him because all of his guy friends are my friends and most of them i trust more than my own friends and they say that all he talks about is me and they say he would never do something too hurt me. who am i to trust???
2006-11-03 06:33:39 · 9 answers · asked by roker_baby_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your guy until he gives you reason not to trust him. Your friends are probably just jealous.
2006-11-03 06:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust yourself. If you have a vibe about this guy that says he's just a bit sketchy, that little vibe is usually right.
But if you believe that he really is sincere & he's worth your time, stick w/ him. A good test is to see how he interacts w/ other beautiful girls, but for the record: flirting is almost never harmless, especially if it's hurting you. Hang in there!
2006-11-03 06:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are viscous and they will do what they want to, to get what they want. If any of your friends have a crush on him they will do anything in there power to get you two to break up. Guys although stick up for there guys. Trust your gut. If you get a bad feeling about it you need to ask him. My husband is a flirter and I had to asked him straight out and he stopped after I brought it to his attention. He really didn't know that he was flirting. If Johnathon really likes you he will stop if you ask. Hope this helps.
2006-11-03 06:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by I do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's hard to trust anyone but yourself in this type of situation, your friends could just be jealous and over exagerating a bit. and the guys may be telling you the partial truth, and maybe not since those are his buddys and guys usually stick together. so good luck and just go with what you feel.
2006-11-03 06:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to trust yourself first and then let him know that you have some kind of feelings for him but your not sure what. and ask him how he feels. his friends are his friends and of course they'er going to look out for him and help him get his. and if you cant trust anyone you should stay single for a while and take time for you
2006-11-03 06:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by monie211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting with them doesn't mean he is going out with them, on the other hand, his friends telling u that all he talks about is you doesn't mean it's true.
You say you have many friends and even best friends but what are best friends for in this world. friends betray, behind your back our even beneath your shelter, my dear, you trust nobody but your GOD. Jonathan might be your guy, your friend may be good friends, but my dear, keep you eyes as open as they can be.
Good Luck
2006-11-03 06:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your heart, if you feel deep down that her will hurt you then he will. As long as you stay positive you both will go far.
2006-11-03 06:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by Lexie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't date boys who confuse you.
Don't date boys who are known to flirty with other girls.
Don't date boys you can't trust.
2006-11-03 06:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as long as you feel comfortable and you trust him I would go with you gut feeling on this one...
2006-11-03 06:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by samshel1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋