I told my boyfriend I was virgin at the very beggining because i wanted to see if he was in it just for the sex or for ME. He lost his virginity at 15 too, so that made me even more scared that he would just use me for sex. However it turns out he really likes me and is willing to wait as long as it takes.. I am going to tell him that i lied about my virginity...what do you think his reaction will be? I did it to ptorect myself.. guys would you understand?
2006-11-03 07:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You screwed up. You should never lie for any reason. I hope he forgives you but if not live and learn.
2006-11-03 07:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he will be a little hurt because he may think that you did not trust him and be offended. he may think you thought of him as just another dude to have sex with you. But after awhile and you explain why you lied he will eventually understand and move on. But he will probably ask you about other things you've lied about. It was a smart move you made about lying. I think I may try that gurl! Enjoy!
2006-11-03 07:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by peachyprincess07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that if you explain why you lied to him then he will completely understand. Although, try not to do lie about your virginity... you have to be honest about your sex life even if you don't want to be taken advantage of.
2006-11-03 07:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i would be a bit upset as you lied to me from the start and how would i know if you did not lie more but i would get over it and move on it i cared allot about you. I say tell him and if he really cares then she will still be with you and be understanding.
2006-11-03 07:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would. Mainly because I know there are guys like that out there. Since it is hard to tell who is like this or that just by looking at them. So it is understanding that you must use deception to test who is what.
2006-11-03 07:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by JoeDraco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long u ago u told him that lie but if i was u i keep the lie up because if u tell him ur not then hell probably be mad and just try to have sex with u
2006-11-03 07:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by cutie1017 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, of COURSE he'll understand!
afterall the most lasting relationships are the ones built on lies.
2006-11-03 07:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no comment.
2006-11-03 07:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋