Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

Joint Bank Accounts? Married couples?

2006-10-27 01:22:05 · 20 answers · asked by D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 01:20:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Every time when were together I start to feel like I'm not good enough for and i start to dought myself i feel like **** the rest of the
day and when she finds out she says that i should stop thinking like this because to her I'm the love of her life . (help me find out whats wrong with me so I dont feel this way anymore)

2006-10-27 01:20:12 · 7 answers · asked by Isaiah C 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so if you were a guy who was taking drugs and you had a girlfriend what would you expect her to do. stay with you and help you get clean, would you not give a crap about what she does, or would you want her to stop bugging you about the problem? and also do guys still love you if theyre on drugs?

2006-10-27 01:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last nignt ne tol me that he wants another girl joing us in the bedroom! he said it was only a fantasy.. he said he just want her to do stuff to me so he can watch me having plesure! and he also only doing things with me not with her? but obviously thats not all? or what do you think? but the thing is we've been together for to years and has a very healthy sex life and now im hearing this? is this normal? i dont know what to think or how to react!

2006-10-27 01:16:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I decided that the relationship was a little too stifling-- we spend alot of time wasting time doing nothing, sitting around "just hanging" and feeling that we're not connecting with our other friends enough. We decided to not break up or take a break... but to go into the day looking for opportunities to strengthen our other friendships... we thought that maybe then, our time together will be more precious and meaningful... and our love might grow? But I'm afraid that when this happens, we'll stop loving each other... or something along those lines...? Please tell me what you think of this! Thanks!

2006-10-27 01:14:28 · 17 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

I met him 8yrs ago we were both going through breakups. We became strickly friends. Four mos ago it developed into a relationship of intemacy. I want to know where it is going but he thinks I am pushing. He cared for me for 8yrs and I only 4 mos now that I give in he' afraid. He is alot of home issues but I am willing to let him do what he needs to do there. He has no kids but he is 14 yrs younger than me so I am ready to go on but now hes scared. Should I stay or should I go? I think the friendship will end if its over though. He is very inverted and will not express his feelings at all. When we are together everything is cool and apart who knows his feelings. I must be his second real relationship. He says we are dating, but if I see anyone he may not be able to see him again. Is this worth hanging around for?

2006-10-27 01:12:03 · 8 answers · asked by Sybil Sr 2 in Singles & Dating

My gf is moving from England to Paris so we can be together. She doesn't speak a lick of French & so we're not sure about her chances of finding a job quickly. The question is, how should we organize our spendings as I will tend to be generous (esp. in the beginning) & offer most stuff while I can't really afford it. I hate dealing with money... what should we do?!

2006-10-27 01:11:19 · 13 answers · asked by missy 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is in a situation where he has no where to live. He has moved into my house and has been here for about a month now. I asked him a week ago if he could start paying $100 a week and he said " I would just get my own place for that" . I was in shock and then he added to the statement that he only had $1000 in the bank. I really had to bite my tongue. And then I asked him what his plans were. He said he was applying to jobs because he wants to move to another state because the jobs pay better. He is hardly ever here and he does not eat my food (I no longer buy food for the house, I go out to eat). What should I do ?

I really would like to strangle him because I have recently found out that he goes to his different friends houses to eat dinner that they cook for him and other friends of his also treat him out to eat. It is like he never has to pay for anything.

Then he hangs out all the time, recently went clothes shopping, and goes to the casino all the time.

2006-10-27 01:09:33 · 19 answers · asked by tramany77 2 in Friends

this guy i really like is sending me mixed signals... he is my brothers friend tho... if you liked you friends's younger sister would you ask her out or is that not cool???

2006-10-27 01:08:46 · 10 answers · asked by Megzie 1 in Singles & Dating

should i just give in and tell him to go back to his parents or should he be on my side and fighting.......he says he loves me more than life itself but i still am not 100% sure.......im scared his parents will win........he is 28 and i think its none of there business? but should i just give up.....i love him so much but if he stays with me then his family will be no more because they really cannot stand me

2006-10-27 01:08:17 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want it to be special as she's really stressed out at the moment and we havn't been on a date in a long time... what do you think i shoulfd do to make it special?

2006-10-27 01:06:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If she just take off what could happn. Or if we had kids and she go back to her county would I have to pay child if I didnt do nothing wrong.

2006-10-27 01:05:11 · 6 answers · asked by icn2y 1 in Weddings

I have a date on saturday at the movies and i dont know how to make out yet? plz help me!

2006-10-27 01:04:35 · 5 answers · asked by missy 1 in Friends

its been over one n a half month hes not bothered to get back in touch :(
hes my very good friend n i really like him alot.
i miss him n his stupid lil conversations....
he was my best bud..
i mailed him n tried my best.... nothing is wrong.... but WHY dint he reply???
i cant forget him
nor i can think of moving on cause hes ALWAYS on my mind,,,,
i dont think i deserve this....................... :(
i want him back :( :( :(

its his birthday next week... hes in london studying ... n im in mumbai... SHOULD I CALL HIM TO WISH HIM??? and just clear out the matter tht y has he acted like this?? i mean if he din wanna talk he couldve at least told me be4 he went.... but NO WE WERE ALWAYS on msgs be4 he left...

if i call him in london ( i want an opinion yes or no) yeah if i call him atleast i can end it off or whtever it is properly without hanging in the middle and see whats actually happening....

GIMME A REASON HOW CAN HE MOVE ON WHEN THER WERE NO FIGHTS NO NOTHING ....

2006-10-27 01:03:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hiya, my mum has got the kids tonight, and me and my partner are stuck for ideas what to do, we lve in norfolk in the uk (there really isn't too much options) i hate night clubs, bars, pubs as it's not really my thing, so thats out of the question any ideas? we don't want to spend too much. Thanks xx

2006-10-27 01:02:41 · 32 answers · asked by Dreamah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems as though my Man wants me to stay at home forever with our son. I'm 24, going to University, working a P/T job and he does nothing besides stay at home, smoke and hang out with his friends. He doesn't want me to complete my course and even goes out when i'm due to study.He even gives me a curfew after Uni.

2006-10-27 01:02:05 · 18 answers · asked by BuskinBeanz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the deal. Everytime my man and I have s*x, I practice oral.But very rarely he wants to lick my *****. Indirectly I've tried to tell him that while having sex, and whenevr he licks my .......... it is very short and because i've asked him to. How do I explain that I enjoy oral, I like pleasing him, but also I like to be pleased. He doesn't want to talk a lot about that kind of stuff. Last time we got mad in bad, and it was out of no where, doing all kind os stuff (which I liked so much) was 2 years ago. What happened then and why was it, why it could repeat now i don't know.Help me please

2006-10-27 01:01:53 · 11 answers · asked by bilezlatko 3 in Singles & Dating

My BF says that i have to relax because I'm too much into him!! Since he flew back to his country 2 months ago, i cant make myseld recover from being not with him. I have send him sms like 5 times a day say my good morning and my good nights! asked himd how his day was. but it seems like he i have not lit his fire anymore and he just taken me forgranted...i told him that i do understand that he's busy sometimes and he loves to go out with his friends, but when it comes to me and i asked him to sit down and chat with just to make me feel missed and needed i just feel like im making things too hard for him. he's just too lazy all the time when it comes to my time esp. we're in a LDR. i guess im just letting time dissolve the love that we built together and make him feel how it is to have a life without me disturbing him somehow.

2006-10-27 00:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by edge 1 in Friends

this guy shows all the signs for liking me, hes been chasing me for ages and we have kissed eachother yet, he hasnt asked me out on a proper date and he only contacts me during weekends to meet. we do live in different towns. does he like me?

2006-10-27 00:58:23 · 18 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 00:58:12 · 9 answers · asked by lil miss country gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I work on a 3rd shift crew putting up stock in a market. I have had a small thing for the department head for almost 6 months now. I work for another person, not him directlly. He does write my schedule though we never work the same shifts. I am getting transferred soon and I was hoping to make my move but, if he says no I don't think I could take it. I also don't need him blabbing it all over if he says no. Now if he says yes I am willing to be on his terms of how he wants to handle it. Should I take that chance?

2006-10-27 00:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by CamPIL 2 in Singles & Dating

He cheated, and we have worked things out.
The trouble is he is now suffocating me with the I love you's, he is trying so so hard, that its making me pull away?
I know that the cheating is behind us, he makes sure im well aware of his every move...............i kind of feel hes going overboard. I dont know what to do ?

2006-10-27 00:57:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many years can a relationship between California and Sweden last, without moving together and not much money to fly? It will take about 3 years before my son may be economically self independent if I leave Sweden for longer times. Anyone with similar experiences?

2006-10-27 00:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by Barbarella1958 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her name is shiza and she is like 6 months older than me.
Please tell me.
I LOVE her Very much.
I also worte poems for her.

2006-10-27 00:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cant we all just get along?

2006-10-27 00:55:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi, i was wondering what colour of shirt as part of my suit, i can wear at a formal wedding as a male guest? Also can i wear formal tan leather shoes or do they have to be black?

2006-10-27 00:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by flyingmaniac81 2 in Weddings

why can't i find a bf is it me is it cause i'm ugly or something i went out with someone and he treated me lyk crap so i dumped him. did i do the right thing.

2006-10-27 00:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Singles & Dating

I found this gay from jeevansathi.com, and we talk daily, he ask me for snap i forwerd though mail, after that he told me yestuerday i love you, but muje pata nahi chal raha ki kya answer dena chahiye, jab muj se baat karta hein muje achha lagta hein, main khud uske call ka wait karti hoon, he is right no israel for some work ? he is coming DEC 2006, and he wants to meet me and he told me every thing about himself, i also , i share my past also with this gay, but now i dont no what to do? what 2 say this gay, b'coz my heart teling me go had this is your choice, and say love you too? and we talk last 4 days only , ye relastion shirf 4 days se hi hein, but i realy say i think i love him?

2006-10-27 00:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by Jasmita P 1 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged and we started talking in fone. He invited me for an outing and i agreed. Now i fear whether he advance to anything else..(he seeems naughty in talk)...Also think of what dress to wear..ofcource it is our first casual visit.Please advise

2006-10-27 00:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating