Here's the deal. Everytime my man and I have s*x, I practice oral.But very rarely he wants to lick my *****. Indirectly I've tried to tell him that while having sex, and whenevr he licks my .......... it is very short and because i've asked him to. How do I explain that I enjoy oral, I like pleasing him, but also I like to be pleased. He doesn't want to talk a lot about that kind of stuff. Last time we got mad in bad, and it was out of no where, doing all kind os stuff (which I liked so much) was 2 years ago. What happened then and why was it, why it could repeat now i don't know.Help me please
2006-10-27 01:01:53 · 11 answers · asked by bilezlatko 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am merried to this guy, and here's some details:
He is wild in sex indeed, but we recently got merried and I was employed, and there isn't any time left for us being intimate.He does oral but only if I telll him to do that.We've practiced 69 but only 3 times and it was in 3 days. Do you think that the things will get back together when we settle, because we r remodellimg the apartment for two months and we live with his mother. Now we only have sex at night
2006-10-27 01:10:47 · update #1
It sounds like he needs to be a better listner and needs to take his time to make sure you are well taken care of. Contrary to what most guys think, performing oral on a woman is one ofthe most pleasurable experiences they can ever take part in. The ability to drive a woman to the height of climax with your tongue and mouth is a tremendous turn-on. If he isn't careful, another guy that likes to give as well as get oral will end up taking his place in your bed. Maybe you could try to discuss this when you are someplace other than the bedroom. Relate to him the fact that you REALLY enjoy it and hope he will understand that his prowess as a lover is more than just giving you the old in-and-out, but you want the tenderness and sensuality of being treated to an oral experience that will drive you wild.
My wife did, we do, I really enjoy giving and her response and she loves the feeling she gets.
2006-10-27 01:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becuase there is something wrong with him. Oral on a woman is the sweetest thing in the world. Maybe he was brought up to think that it is dirty. I am glad I am not that way I love it! Also, it has to be asked and no offense intended. Do you keep it clean down there? Do you have an odor problem? All legitimate questions.
2006-10-27 08:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey a lot of guys don't like to eat at the Y. It's nothing personal- they just aren't getting much out of it. Also, and I mean this in the most polite sense possible-is it possible you have odor? Clean yourself up real good and talk to your next serious boyfriend about it sometime. Tell him how much you like it and see where it goes.
2006-10-27 08:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sure I could help you ... but it's best we wait till your bf goes out .....
Just put it straight to him ... you're not going to give oral untill you start getting some ... he'll soon the light (and theres a tunnel joke in there somewhere to but I'm just gonna leave it at that )
2006-10-27 08:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its simple...hes the type that takes and doesnt give...he must learn that if he wants something from u then he must put something in it too...so just dont practice oral on him and c how he likes it.....dont give him it if u kno he wont do the same for u, treat him as he treats u
2006-10-27 08:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by mery b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
69 then a 96 you both will be pleased.
2006-10-27 08:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say except...
Some girls don't enjoy giving oral, and some guys don't enjoy giving it either.
2006-10-27 08:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by cowgoesmoo31 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure its clean if he doesn't like to do that maybe you should get someone that does. There are many more guys out there
2006-10-27 08:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to hear that , thats sad, maybe you should have found out that he don't lick before getting married honey
2006-10-27 09:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so no licky licky, so whats the old oyster look like, fat-n-hairy,stinky and bald, vaginal warts and puss , girl if its clean and neat and smells good.... any or most normal is gonna LICK the hell out of it......... so gotta wonder if it's you !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 08:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋