Every time when were together I start to feel like I'm not good enough for and i start to dought myself i feel like **** the rest of the
day and when she finds out she says that i should stop thinking like this because to her I'm the love of her life . (help me find out whats wrong with me so I dont feel this way anymore)
2006-10-27 01:20:12 · 7 answers · asked by Isaiah C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you are in love with her and scared that you cannot make her happy, she must be happy and in love with you or she would have already left you by now, so cheer up and be glad someone loves you for you!
2006-10-27 01:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a little bit more confidence in yourself...Start thinking more positive about your relationship but also as a person...If she loves you and you obvious did something right to keep her dont mess it up by feeling and thinking negative...Cause nobody wants to be around someone that isnt sure of themself...Good Luck
2006-10-27 08:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have confidence when your around her. in a way, you feel like shes better than you and thats your problem. its all in your head. if she says your love of her life, then you are. all you have to do is be yourself and have some confidence, there is nothing "wrong" with you.
2006-10-27 08:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in short you are insecure. in long, you have to ask yourself why you are insecure, was it your childhood? is it your job? what makes you insecure around her? once you know the problem and I think you know what it is, you can begin to address it in your time away from her and not burden her with your insecurities. i dislike when girls are insecure around me, women hate it more when men are. we have to be confident for them because generally speaking women are more insecure than men.
2006-10-27 08:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem comes from your parents poor parenting skills..
some how u felt like u never added up....this might help to accept yourself better,,LOwer ur expectations!!! or take an im ok ur ok course at ur community college
2006-10-27 08:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are timid!!! that's all she is there and all you have to do is to settle down and believe what she tells you.. believe you are man enough and that the girl is just yours. just relax and feel her
2006-10-27 08:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by tinka bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u think negative just relax she is ur's
2006-10-27 08:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by BAZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋