Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

Well, at this moment only sex is keeping us together. He tells me that I am the best he have ever had! And I want more what can I do? Should I stop having sex with him until he make this relationship better? Not kidding this man is really into me when it comes to sex and I am a upset about the situation. Everyone is telling me that I should be happy that he enjoys being with me only but my god.

2006-10-27 02:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Cowgirl Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl been together for 7yrs we have both hit each other before but since we have been to cousling and niether one of us have hit each other for 2yrs now this morning we woke up and she slapped me and we are two weeks from getting married and i'm thinking to my self how can i put up with this ?

2006-10-27 02:50:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was eating dinner at a nice restuaraunt the otehr night....it was friday night and I was alone.....the waiter had waited on me before and we had flirted then and all.....this time when I got my bill the only thing on it was the drink I ordered.
I am terrible about knowing when a guy is hitting on me and all....was this a hit and should I have left my number or maybe should I go back and try to sit in his section?
I would just like a little help from you all on this!

2006-10-27 02:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by McRach 3 in Singles & Dating

i lost my daddy 1 yr ago he raised me all my life. i had some troubled teenage years and we got through that. then in 2000, i moved out with my 3 year old at the time, and started my life with my current husband, i only moved across town but we had more children and i didnt see my father as much as i wish now that i would have. he had some drinking problems in the past and was sober for 10 years. he was a vietnam vet so he definatley had the p/t/s/d and when i moved out at some point he began drinking again very heavily! he was taking care of his mother there and the pressure was getting to him! i did not have any idea that he was destroying his body. one day my grandmother called me and said that he was sick and couldnt get out of bed i rushed over and called 911. the doctor at the hospital told me that he would not leave the hospital alive i lost my mind that day. 2 weeks he hung on with vigorous treatment. he passed away 2 min before i got to his room and i lost my world that day!!!

2006-10-27 02:48:28 · 18 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 in Family

see alot of men literally suffer when they choose to be with a woman that is clearly a b****, gets no respect from them and does everything for them and gives all they can give to please em. sometimes women are so mean and men stick it out and stay with them is it dependency or do they like to be treated like crap, maybe its the challenge and more fun that way....have no clue

2006-10-27 02:48:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You see we knew each other in high school me and his sis where good friends. We lost contact for about three yrs. and now we have found each other. I went to david's bridal to try on my maid of honor dress and decided how fun to try on wedding dresses and he said yes lets do it. Well we where just messing around and he told his sister and she told her parents. Now they are yelling about we are moving to fast and that Keith is not seeing things from the inside that they are seeing from the outside. What are they seeing. They are just being nosey and paranoid. What should i do about them cause my mom seems to be fine with what we are doing. also he has moved in with me already and i am 22 and he is 21 so what is their problem. Please help with whatever i can do to ease things over with the parents.

2006-10-27 02:48:07 · 16 answers · asked by Cricket 1 in Family

i have lots good boy m8s and a brother and dad to buy for this xmas and have no idea what to get any of them!! im on a tight budget and need sum ideas please help!
list some suggestions.. :)

2006-10-27 02:47:08 · 12 answers · asked by the 3 peas :D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and you could sh4g another woman 4 that hour would you try it to see what it feels like?

2006-10-27 02:46:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After my husband's attack on my grandson the other day (and after filing a report), my son has come to the conclusion he's unloved, nobody wants him, and he can't do anything for anyone. He even said this: "I feel like an idiot. He told me I deserved it, he's right. I deserved it; I deserved being kidnapped; maybe even being raped."
I don't know how to convince him it's not his fault anymore.
PLEASE help me...

2006-10-27 02:46:22 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa X 1 in Family

My husband and I just got married and yesterday we received a present of three books from a distant relative that look like they were bought from a used-book store and are on subjects that do not have anything to do with our lives. I would just have rather received a nice card. I know it's the thought that counts, but come on people - used books?

2006-10-27 02:45:39 · 5 answers · asked by Molly1015 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering other ppls perspective.

2006-10-27 02:45:04 · 27 answers · asked by Munchkin 2 in Singles & Dating

Curvy = Fat
Bubbly = annoying as hell
Sassy = uber-b*tch
Considerate = clingy, likely Borderline Personality Disorder
Great personality = narcissist, also fat

2006-10-27 02:44:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u female older than 20 then contact me coz i really would like to discuss something with u.

2006-10-27 02:43:19 · 25 answers · asked by len p 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband says he wants kids but then makes smart remarks about how aggravating they are & how much money they will cost. I am concerned & confused. Sometimes he says that he would love to have one right now (he even told his mom we would try in March) & that it probably wouldn't be bad to be a daddy but then at other times he is making those negative remarks & acting like he doesn't. He is very wishy washy. Is he just nervous & scared of becoming a father? Money shouldn't be a problem because we both make really good money & I work at home plus we have alot of money saved up for a house. I've been ready for about a year now but I'm waiting on him (I don't want to do this without him). We are saving for a house, which hopefully we will get this time next year so maybe he is stressed about that. I was thinking about asking him to let's try to conceive next year before we get the house since it takes 9 months to carry but he'll probably say let's wait. What do you think I should do?

2006-10-27 02:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by beachbum26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy cheats, he is a dog. He loses 50%(and more) of his property. He is a pig. Ok, fiar deal. He got what he paid for.
But...what a woman cheats, it is actually about feelings and romance. Even though the pie is shared but "I feel with him different" is the common sentence in such situations. Also, her hubby loses 50% (or more) of his property during divorce hearings.

Shouldn't woman lose her property if she cheats.
Shouldn't she leave home empty handed (ok, with a pair of underwears or two) rather than giving her half of the property of her poor husband?

2006-10-27 02:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Observer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how could I get from him what I want without marry him? How could i pay or convince him?

2006-10-27 02:42:11 · 29 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Marriage & Divorce

nothing cheap or tacky, but could be funny!!

2006-10-27 02:41:25 · 4 answers · asked by stressqueen 2 in Weddings

i was involved with this guy for nine years and last year i got pregnant and he dumped me and asked me to abort the baby which i almost did and this year July i gave birth to a baby boy whom i love so much and adore. now this jerk dont wanna support his child says i got pregnant to have a hold over him which is a lie as he knows it. he is seeing someone else and intending to marry her but the thing is I love him dearly and i need to find out how can i loose this feeling for him cause it kills me to see him with somebody else?

2006-10-27 02:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by LETHABO 2 in Family

I am 32 years old and I have just being going out with a 18 year old . It was not weird in beginning the way it is suppose to be . Now I am thinking of a long term relationship . I wondering what kind of issues can I face in long term. What are the common pitfalls that I should avoid, things I should accept and adapt before hand. I really want this to work.

2006-10-27 02:40:00 · 13 answers · asked by s_k_latif 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife has awesome legs and gorgeous eyes. And between her legs is sweet as Apple Pie. How about you?

2006-10-27 02:38:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

having just read a question from a relativley new bride ; stating that after only a few months she wants out of the marriage & had felt strongly about this before the wedding ; but went ahead cos she didn't want to disappoint parents.a few weeks before the wedding of my brother his then fiancee told me in tears that she didn;t want to get married & my advice to her was ** he may be my brother ;but if that is how you feel ; then DON'T** she went ahead with it & 2 years later they parted. had a similar story with a woman I once worked with- her excuse was * we had all these people coming from o/s**
I tell young people - if in doubt then DONT; it is NOT too late until you sign the papers.
if any one has been through this ; then WHY did you go ahead with the ceremony?

2006-10-27 02:38:47 · 19 answers · asked by fairypelican 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 02:38:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is he still my father inlaw ?my wife passed away 12 months ago...still care about him but he is getting on my nerves

2006-10-27 02:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this is my problem well we brought a car of a person for $1000 and all that has happened after is the following

1.mud on our clothes when we peg out
2.scratching her car
3.saying mean stuff
4.spying on her

there ismore to type but this is just some of the things that we have been acussed off we have been acuussed for many things

l was also hoping that somone out there could think of somthing to do in this situation l really need help with it

2006-10-27 02:38:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 21 and still a virgin and my boyfriend is 27 and we've been in a relationship for a year now and have not have sex yet. i wanted to wait until i really know him before i sleep with him, we are talking about marriage and having a furture together and things like that. my question is, should i wait til the homeymoon or should it matter cause we going to have a furture regarless. i wanted to wait to do that with someone special to me and someone that i would have a furture with and i think he is the one. thanks

2006-10-27 02:37:15 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i have told him how i felt and he still acts the same. when we first got together he had passion, heat, lustful thoughts, and he found me irresistible, but now he doesn't act like he use to. What should i do? i mean yeah he works, but he was workin when we first started going out. He says he trusts me, but he doesn't act like it. He never wants to take me out anymore, i am so lost and confused. We'll be together a year on Thanksgiving Day, and i don't think he plans on doing anything for me. Someone please help.
Signed lost and confused.
p.s. I dont want anyone else. i only want him, and i constantly tell him that, but i dont think he listens. sometimes i wonder if he takes my love for granted. Because he knows my biggest fear is living life without him.

2006-10-27 02:37:07 · 5 answers · asked by mrs. wright 1 in Singles & Dating

I alway give in to my gf but she wont give in to me. She would never ever give in to me. I am alway there for her but she would alway spend time with her friends rather than me. I got so angry and i never talk to her the whole day. So i told her i am sorry and she said that she already expected. Please give me some advice... what should i do??

2006-10-27 02:36:57 · 12 answers · asked by Confused123 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 'Marie' for a mother in law. She is controlling, meddling, and manipulative. She gives just to use it against you. She has an opinion about EVERYTHING and is always right. She loves our daughter but is driving me crazy. She cries whenever I try to say anything about it! I cant just drop her from our life but what should I do?

2006-10-27 02:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex-wife retained our home and she found a bf three months after the separation. He began living in the marital home pretty quickly enjoying "my" home and "my" friends and "my" ex-wife.

2006-10-27 02:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I will do anything to marry him but he is not asking me yet what do i do is there a charm or something i could use pls help me

2006-10-27 02:35:28 · 16 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating