I alway give in to my gf but she wont give in to me. She would never ever give in to me. I am alway there for her but she would alway spend time with her friends rather than me. I got so angry and i never talk to her the whole day. So i told her i am sorry and she said that she already expected. Please give me some advice... what should i do??
2006-10-27 02:36:57 · 12 answers · asked by Confused123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either agree to work it out or walk away.
2006-10-27 02:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by Coop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey....no worry I faced the same stuffs with you. I love her much but I think she is just like your gf. I was desperated for long time even until now. I can't let go of her yet. To have the positive thinking I'm still there for her if she needs me and since she doesn't like me I can't force her. I just follow her way and let her do whatever she wants...as long as she is happy then I'll be happier. If you love her and can't let go this is the only way, but the better choice is let go and refocus to new girls that'll be faster cure. CHEER!
2006-10-27 02:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by AlienBZD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some pride and self esteem and dump her. Their are a million girls out their that will treat you good. Believe me, life is to short to waste any time. As soon as you hook up with somebody else, you will forget that she even existed. Besides, if she does not give you the time of day, she really doesn't care about you. she might be ready to dump you. Do it first and do it with a smile on your face.
2006-10-27 03:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Flyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't respect people that always give in, like you say you do. And then, you get mad, but immediately apologize for getting mad. You have some serious assertiveness issues and until you handle these, expect your girlfriend to both walk all over you and not respect you.
My personal motto is "People learn how to treat you from you". If you don't like how she treats you, don't take it. Be polite, but firm and explain your issues.
2006-10-27 02:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not her boyfriend, you are her b*tch.
The reason she does not give in to you is because she does not have to. You are just the love sick puppy who will jump at her every command.
Show some f*cking back bone, say 'no' to her every now and then, and make her work for your love.
2006-10-27 02:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Place holder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say break up with her. If she's always choosing others over you, what's the point of the relationship except to serve her needs? You don't need someone like that.
2006-10-27 02:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is suposed to be given and recieved.
If in life you find those who don't wish to give you your share, then move on and leave them behind. They dont deserve you.
Good Luck
2006-10-27 03:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by we_are_legion99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new gf
2006-10-27 02:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Sooner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a confused sod...you probably have a small winkie as well
2006-10-27 02:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your stupid cause she got you wrapped around her finger knowing that you'll always be there she don't haft to worry about you going no where so she treats you like whatever.
2006-10-27 02:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by kiyaluvin15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋