My ex-wife retained our home and she found a bf three months after the separation. He began living in the marital home pretty quickly enjoying "my" home and "my" friends and "my" ex-wife.
2006-10-27 02:35:45 · 12 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Owch that's got to hurt!! Course its normal to be jealous and pretty damn painful especially when there's children involved,But unfortunately that's life and terrible things can happen you just have turn it around and get on with your life it may take a while and it'll hurt but its just something us Meier mortals have to do. good luck!!
2006-10-27 02:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened in your life to make you leave your home?
I know we don't/cannot see the results of "what happens" down the road but anytime whoever is 1st to leave is the 1st to feel the changes & feel the agony.
Ex-wife tells me a divorce has occurred so you have no choice but to move on-you left.
Don't fall into the trap of stalking and calling,it will get you in trouble and possibly arrested.
Think positive and move forward.
Good Luck
2006-10-27 02:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, its probably normal. But unless the house is still in your name, it is no longer your "home". As for saying "my ex wife" she is no longer your wife, you need to let it go and move on.
As for mutual friends, they can still be your friends, but you are going to hear about the new guy. Time and experience has shown me that you will gravitate to a new circle of friends and maintain a friend ship with only a few of the mutual friends of the past.
If the house is no longer in your name, and your ex is just that, your ex, you have to let go of those thoughts and feelings or you will be daily beating yourself up with the thoughts.
2006-10-27 02:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. You need to get in your head that is part of your past and as such belongs there. Yees, this wont be easy but its a fact and the sooner you can get over it the better. Find other things to occupy your mind. Get a new gf or a favorite hobby. Good luck it will get better but I feel your pain.
2006-10-27 02:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Tough as it is, you just have to try to move on. I have the exact same situation ahead of me as my divorce was final yesterday, and she got the house. So he will park in the garage, sit on the couch, sleep in the bed, etc
2006-10-27 02:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by Nuk.Nuk.Nuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its quite normal, but its just one of those things you have to live with.
Technically its no longer "your" house though. I assume she got the house and you got other benefits?
2006-10-27 02:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by markcrosby.co.uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, why why would it bother you it certainly wouldn't bother me. I'd be saying she got the house but I got my life back. I'd be happy
2006-10-27 02:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you let her keep the house.
2006-10-27 03:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely normal... all those things were once yours. You'd be unusual if it didn't bother you.
2006-10-27 02:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be really strange if you didn't feel jealous.
2006-10-27 02:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Coop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋