Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

i just got a failing grade...
and boy it hurts so much...
im so fwockin wasted and most likely... devastated
its my first time to fail and i dont think i can take this
does it really feel this bad? or im just toooo egotistic
man what the hell should i do?
get drunk? fwock off? kill someone??

2006-10-27 03:06:33 · 9 answers · asked by dudatswit 2 in Friends

Last year I got pregnant. My boyfriend and I came to the decision to have a termination. I do not regret this decision as I know I don't want kids at the moment. However, my boyfriend is about to become an uncle. He likes children so he's happy that his sister is having a baby but I've got all of these emotions going around. I feel sad, jealous (I don't know why), angry but happy for his sister. I don't know how I'm going to cope with seeing him hold his new niece/nephew and I don't want him to know I feel this way.. Has anyone had an experience like this or similar to this?

2006-10-27 03:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by donna o 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like watching lezbian porn something about it just turns me on but im not attracted to girls anyway my hubby wont watch it with me but i really want him to what should i do

2006-10-27 03:04:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The last thing my brother needs right now is a child, everyone in the family thinks that abortion is the answer. It is NOT!! Ok my brother is a troublesome kid. But a good kid overall. He has been in alot of trouble for numerous things...drink in public, possesion..etc...His girlfriend is 15! And has three crazy brothers and a crazy dad. They want my brother's head for this. It is not only his fault!! It takes too! I am not even sure what my question is, I just don't know what to do...I am so scared for my brother.

2006-10-27 03:04:25 · 37 answers · asked by Happy 2 in Family

I need help from the adult ladies out there, it would be greatly appreciated. I need to know how to read this situation so I don’t make an a** of myself tomorrow (I’m 30, and this girl is 34, neither of us have ever been married). I went out with this girl twice, the last time was a year and a half ago. The first time we went out things went ok and we made plans to go out again. Then one of her longtime friends got in the way and they began seeing each other. She lives one hour away from me so it would have been a long distance relationship. She broke up with him a few months later. We went out again shortly thereafter. I went to see her. At the end of the date, she said that she would have to come down to see me next time. she had indicated previously that the distance turns her off because she has to drive 45 minutes everyday to work and that was what was precluding her from starting a relationship with me.. It’s really complicated, but like an idiot I never asked her down because I kept coming back to the “she doesn’t like the distance thing so she isn’t really interested”. I didn’t want to have to deal with the rejection because she is an awesome girl and I could have seen myself falling hard for her and then end up hurt. If I missed my chance with her I’ll never forgive myself. Here’s the thing. We’ve kept in touch consistently for the last year and a half and email nearly daily (sometimes to the point of excessive since we are both at work!). Sometimes about absolutely nothing at all, but other times about life and what’s happening in each of our lives. Over this time I’ve begun to realize that I have some serious feelings for her, like she might be THE ONE. Back in January I realized this and I asked her out to lunch but she said that she had started seeing someone and “didn’t think it would be fair for all of us involved” to get together. So we went on like usual. I casually mentioned to her about a month ago that I had started seeing somebody (I’m not anymore but she doesn’t know that), and she immediately responded by suggesting that we needed to get together sometime. She is planning on coming down to my town to do some shopping and wanted to get together with me afterwards. Today, she mentioned that she’d like to switch up the schedule though, that she wants to see me first then do the shopping later. Can you give me your interpretation of the situation? Am I in the dreaded “friend zone” or is there a chance she is waiting to see my reaction and if I still have interest? I need the female perspective. Thanks in advance for your help, I am an absolutely pathetic mess

2006-10-27 03:04:01 · 17 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

Your driving down the road and some guy in a truck hurry's up along side of you , pretty much keeps the same speed and keeps looking over at you!
1) what are your thoughts, are you anoyed?
2) you dont mind you think its kind of flattering?
3) you like to dress sexy knowing guys in trucks do it all the time?
4) do you tease him and pretend you dont notice and show him stuff?

give us your thoughts, and how often do this happen to you!!

2006-10-27 03:03:45 · 11 answers · asked by Bobby W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an American bf for 1 year and 7 mos.We met online and our relationship is fine. He plan to come here in Asia as I'm asian.I offered to pay his fare one way.My friends said I'm crazy as he is an American and he is paid well than me.I love him and I don't want to take advantage. What do you think.

2006-10-27 03:02:36 · 12 answers · asked by k 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a married mother of 2 children who has been married for almost 7 years now. Over the past couple years its gotten to the point where I feel like I have more of a roommate, than a husband. I cant even remember when the last time i heard him say, "I love you". I've often thought about leaving but something has told me not to. Maybe its all for the sake of the children, Ages 3 & 7. I know as of now, I still love him but I am not "In Love" with him.

Theres this guy that Works at the same place I do. Over the last couple of months, We have seemed to be talking more & more. I dont know what it is, but everytime I see him, I can seem to stop smiling. He just makes all my problems go away. I have often thought about, What if....", but have done nothing as of yet. This guy makes my heart beat faster.

Am I doing something wrong with the way I feel about this guy at work since I am married?? I need answers!! I'm so confused right now, I dont know what to do

2006-10-27 03:02:32 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in this relationship for 2.5 years. It has always been very trying, as we both have identical characters. One problem is that he is 8 years younger with a child, and a not so good credit, financial problems, etc.. On the other hand, I know he loves me alot, we live in 2 different states, and he keeps telling me that he cannot provide, he does not have money right now. He keeps talking about marriage and that he is going to propose but it hasnt happened, I think that is more like the carrot you dangle in front of the rabbit. Anyway, I love him too, and long to be with him. Only problem is, in order for us to be together, I have to leave my home which I own, and a solid career. I would then move to be with him, and live in an apt., sell my house and hope to start over. I dont want to give up all of my life's achievements, am afraid I wont have that with him ( house, career, financial stability), but at the same time, I love him so much and dont want to give him up ! Advice ??

2006-10-27 03:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by Mx2 4 in Singles & Dating

to show you that you are number one to him, in his thoughts and his future. Or more simply, what does he do to make you feel secure and content? I really appreciate your taking the time to answer. Email more private info as needed to get your honest input.....

2006-10-27 03:01:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's for my father-in-law, and I don't really know him that well, so I was thinking something general? any ideas? he's in his 60's and I don't think he has any hobbies.

2006-10-27 03:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My live-in boyfriend works nights and I work days.....we only get a VERY small amount of time with each other here lately and we are constantly argueing, what are some suggestions as to how to make things a little better. Maybe some sweet things to do?

2006-10-27 03:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I am 22 years old married happy, have my own life...
My mom tells me last night she had an abortion when I was one month old. I am totally devistated! Apparently, my grandmother (my fathers mom) told my mom that she was trying to ruin my fathers life, and she had to have an abortion.
What do I do.
What do I say.
Why would my grandmother do that??
And why would my parents agree to that?
I am so confused and upset.
Why did everyone else but me know until now??

2006-10-27 03:00:05 · 21 answers · asked by Happy 2 in Family

She has been looking a bit pudgy lately.

2006-10-27 02:58:23 · 32 answers · asked by itsjustaname_lemmehaveit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf is a girl who always has to be busy. Always! She has had 3 and 4 jobs at the same time before. It is so damn frustrating b/c we love each other but she feels obliged to so many of her good friends too that our time together is limited. We went out Wed and had a great time together (as always!) and then it was back to run, run, run for her. She is going out of town w/ a few of her gf's this weekend (despite the fact that she said she doesn't even really want to??) and I hope she has fun, but I am feeling a little left out here. You think it's too stalkerish or desperate to go to her work when she's done, take her a rose, and just say I miss her but hope she has a good time? I wish I felt like she missed me more.

2006-10-27 02:58:12 · 11 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

You see, we'll have been together for 2 years this November and love each other with all our hearts. We're best friends as much as we are partners and I feel like he's my other part of me. Last night we talked about what wil happen after he graduates. His opinion of that time often fluctuates. He doesn't want to jump straight into work which I understand, but he is talking about going travelling and without me.. Says he needs to find himself and I respect his decision and because I love him I have to let him go if that's what he needs to do, but it is killing me inside. I don't think I could ever love another man, nor do I want to. I love him so much. He says he may stay in England but that nothing is for sure. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to wait to be dumped and if he goes, there's a chance he may come back. I don't want to wait patiently and then him ******* girls while he's away, but he said it's my choice if I want to which I guess means he would do. I'm confused

2006-10-27 02:58:00 · 3 answers · asked by sophia h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend of the opposite sex and he has told me more than once that I can come and stay at his house anytime I want or need to ( this includes my daughter staying there too) well now I was at lunch yesterday where we both work and this other friend ( male also) came over and sat down across from me, well he seen that, which yesterday was his day off but he came to get his check and he said that he came to see me too, and then when my lunch was over he walked me back to my clinic and ask me if I bought the other friend lunch? I told him NO but that if he had came earlier I would have bought lunch for him to make him feel better. well my question is was he jealous or am I making more out of it than is there. I really like this friend and maybe someday would like for it to be more but right now I am not ready for a relationship and the other friend that sat at lunch with me is married and we are just friends nothing more, so was he a little jealous or an innocent comment?

2006-10-27 02:56:48 · 9 answers · asked by stormy 2 in Friends

2006-10-27 02:56:39 · 27 answers · asked by Crew served weapon 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 02:56:24 · 7 answers · asked by luck2 1 in Friends

Wow, you've all given me some great answers in response to my question of how to stop being jealous. In answer to some of your questions we've been together a year and a half and yes I've been cheated on before.

2006-10-27 02:55:56 · 3 answers · asked by Little miss naughty 2 in Singles & Dating

I think abt dumping my husband but i'm afraid that people are going to talk behind my back and who are these people, these are people from my origin. I'm a muslim and originally from india. My religion permits us to divorce your spouse when you think that the relationship is not working out. Islam is an open religion. It gives one a lot of rights but its the followers who dont practice it right. So i guess its the culture. If i divorce my husband, people are going to think i'm not blessed. Some of them might even stop talking to me and accuse me of bad things. Al though my parents wont have a problem with me divorcing my husband but my relatives and perhaps some of my friends will think of me bad and will look down on me. I'm a USA citizen and it makes me different but i wonder if people from my society are still going to attack me. And there is also one another major problem with my culture, a girl who is divorced is going to have a hard time finding another guy to marry.

2006-10-27 02:55:48 · 6 answers · asked by mind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 02:55:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they said i'm so natural, should i start making up?

2006-10-27 02:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 02:55:11 · 3 answers · asked by young at heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i have never had a boyfriend!!!! and im not really actractive!!!how do i g et a bf????? help please!!

2006-10-27 02:53:55 · 15 answers · asked by kristina 2 in Singles & Dating

goes balistic at the slightest thing and i'm always the one that gets it ,no matter what the problem it always comes back to me,

2006-10-27 02:53:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 02:51:32 · 31 answers · asked by jetpig_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

Sex to me is an art... I was wondering who else felt this way.

2006-10-27 02:51:32 · 6 answers · asked by Salemn Hernandez 2 in Singles & Dating

when im out with my girlfriends and someone has done a new guy shes always like omg it was so good hes huge, i personally like an averafe guy because quite frankly im small down there and if the guy is too big it hurts.

2006-10-27 02:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am putting this sign outside of my dads work what would be a good thing to put on it.

2006-10-27 02:51:25 · 8 answers · asked by themilhouseman 2 in Family