My gf is a girl who always has to be busy. Always! She has had 3 and 4 jobs at the same time before. It is so damn frustrating b/c we love each other but she feels obliged to so many of her good friends too that our time together is limited. We went out Wed and had a great time together (as always!) and then it was back to run, run, run for her. She is going out of town w/ a few of her gf's this weekend (despite the fact that she said she doesn't even really want to??) and I hope she has fun, but I am feeling a little left out here. You think it's too stalkerish or desperate to go to her work when she's done, take her a rose, and just say I miss her but hope she has a good time? I wish I felt like she missed me more.
2006-10-27 02:58:12 · 11 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's a very romantic thing. Go ahead. She'll be flattered. Why don't you back off a little though and make her realize that she's not really giving you time....Sounds like she's a giver, so let her give to her man whom she loves. Don't call her this weekend. Tell her to call you when she can and kiss her goodbye and tell her to have a great time.
2006-10-27 03:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be kinda upset that she works, works, works then takes the time off to go out of town with the girls. I would want to have that time with you. Taking a rose would be sweet. Maybe it will open her eyes to see that she needs to slow down b/c someone is missing her
2006-10-27 10:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this explains why u so annoyed with the dum questions people ask.. you r really sexually frustrated...with your girlfriend now things r making sense...leave it on her car windshield...with a juicy note ..men are suppose to Go after the girl..! Its Romantic...
2006-10-27 10:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not a desperate gesture to give her a rose... Actually I would do the same... Good luck!
2006-10-27 10:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by mish_pl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Base on your observation with your gf, is your gf like surprises type or she doesn't like any surprises stuff. If she likes then you should do it and if she is not that kind of type please dont do it else she will feel ashame and angry you for doing extra stuffs. Best wishes!
2006-10-27 10:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by AlienBZD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just tell her whats on your mind? Tell her that you feel like you never see her anymore and that you feel like you are drifting apart because she is so busy...she'll understand and try harder to find time to spend with you...
2006-10-27 10:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not too stalkerish.....but wouldn;t it be easier just to tell her you wish you both had more time together than just wish she missed you more?
2006-10-27 10:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do that. that will make her see that you miss her and want to spend time with her. you should really tell her this and maybe she can make time for you
2006-10-27 10:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that that idea is very sweet and you should do that for her :)
2006-10-27 10:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all that sweet
2006-10-27 10:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by gail w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋