You see, we'll have been together for 2 years this November and love each other with all our hearts. We're best friends as much as we are partners and I feel like he's my other part of me. Last night we talked about what wil happen after he graduates. His opinion of that time often fluctuates. He doesn't want to jump straight into work which I understand, but he is talking about going travelling and without me.. Says he needs to find himself and I respect his decision and because I love him I have to let him go if that's what he needs to do, but it is killing me inside. I don't think I could ever love another man, nor do I want to. I love him so much. He says he may stay in England but that nothing is for sure. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to wait to be dumped and if he goes, there's a chance he may come back. I don't want to wait patiently and then him ******* girls while he's away, but he said it's my choice if I want to which I guess means he would do. I'm confused
2006-10-27 02:58:00 · 3 answers · asked by sophia h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry for you, but you really don't have a choice here... You must let him go, otherwise he'll feel pushed... If he loves you, he'll come back to you after traveling...Try not to wait for him all this time and do things you enjoy doing, go out with friends... Don't spend this time thinking of him, it will do you worse...
good luck!
2006-10-27 03:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by mish_pl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ... if you love someone some times you have to let them go ... if they come back ...it was meant to be ... if not it's a blessing wrapped up in heart ache...... If they stay for any other reason than they really love you and want to make you the center of thier world it won't last.
Don't cheet your self ... get the lasting kind of love ... not the kinda that stays from guilt or money.
There are lots of American guys .... that is if your tastes run toward the imported kind of guys.
Let him go ... come to Florida in the US and do some guy shopping on the beach ......
Just avoid Daytona Beach & Key West for guy shopping ... unless you want a good decorator or fashion advice.
2006-10-27 10:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time spent away often can change the relationship if the time is significant. You and he will be missing out on the shared experiences. Over time, there can be a natural "split"...not because he doesn't love you, but just because you aren't there. You will feel the same way over time, it just happens that way.
2006-10-27 10:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋