to show you that you are number one to him, in his thoughts and his future. Or more simply, what does he do to make you feel secure and content? I really appreciate your taking the time to answer. Email more private info as needed to get your honest input.....
2006-10-27 03:01:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was marrieed before, so when I was dating again, I was not looking for what I "wanted", I just knew what I did not want.
When I met my husband, and we married, he had amazing qualities that I never knew I would have wanted, but now could never live without.
security wise- women like to know you can take care of them. I do not mean finances. I make more than my husband. Take care of her by doing the things you know you should be doing. Take out the trash, ect. Thats a biggie. Do not do things that cause harm to the household, like overspend, or spend too much time away from home. That gives a big sense of security.
secondly, he is my biggest fan/supporter. No matter what happens, I am right in his eyes. ( unless he and I are fighting, of course) I could be wrong as could be, but he is my #1 supporter, and he makes it known by giving me feedback when I am upset or complaining, be it a fuss with a friend, or issues at work. He is in my corner, has my back, and he is my biggest fan.
As for letting her know she is your future, and you think about her.... show it. Words can not show that. That is an action.
My husband calls me, text messages me. He leaves notes in my car, (I leave earlier in the am than he) Or a note in a book or somewhere i will get it eventually. Women like attention. Any women who denies it is not being honest. A woman knows she is important to you and is your possible future when you show her. My friends are always bragging on my husband, because he is such a strong supporter, and he is always in contact with me all throughout the day.
Security is also an action. The key there, is do not do things that make her feel insecure. I do not know what that is for you. You have to have a talk with her and ask her, what is it I do that makes you feel insecure.
Without most of these things, you wont have a content relationship. But, its not your job alone to make her happy. She has to be happy with herself first.
If you like to read, there is a book called the 5 love languages. Each of us have a love language, and if its touch, and you are buying us gifts, we do not feel loved, because we feel loved when we are touched. It is a very good book. My husband is a Marine, and a bunch of his Marines were reading that book at work together. It flipped them out...it makes a lot of sense, and they saw how they were not doing things right, and how they did not even know what theirs was. Cool little book. I suggest reading it!!
Good Luck
2006-10-27 03:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Oorah Wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. My husband always hugs and kisses me and is always telling me how much he loves and needs me.
2. He listens when I talk as if there's nothing else he'd rather be doing. He always inputs his thoughts into our conversation even if its about something completely stupid that happened at my work.
3. He goes out of his way to do all the little things for me. If I need something that is in the car he's out getting it for me before I can even ask. He makes sure that my comfort comes first in all things before he does for himself. When he does that it really shows just how much he loves me.
2006-10-27 03:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by hobin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's usually the little things....like remembering a conversation we had that I may have discussed something at work and he mentions it later on in the week to make sure everything is ok......doing things for me that he normally would not to for anyone else. Making effort to remember little things about me.....coming home and making dinner although he cant cook...lol.....massaging me when needed.....little things counts more than what people think.....material things are nice but the actions of a person is priceless....they will make things happen whether he has $0.01 or $1mil.....the attention, the affection, the love....actions usually speak louder than words.
2006-10-27 03:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the best. He tells me not that he loves me( he does that on special occasions) But that he appreciates me and the things I do. I love hearing him say that. He cooks me dinner on the odd nights that I am the one working late. And every now and then he surprises me with a night out on the town. He is a great communicator and a very happy guy. I love to hear him laugh. Even when it is at himself.
2006-10-27 03:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have more than 3 things to list but the following are what I really appreciate from him:
a) everyday, kisses & hugs me and tells me he loves me before he leaves for work and when he comes home from work
b) he doesn't allow us to go to bed angry after an argument
c) he always compliments me, even at my worst days
2006-10-27 04:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by no clue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He has this way of looking at me that makes me think that he is just dying to rip off my clothes (and then does if it's an opportune moment).
2. He always has a compliment to give.
3. He is too a fault very honest, even if he knows it could spark a fight.
2006-10-27 03:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he hugs me and shows affection, he's not normally affectionate which makes it more special when he does. Also he doesn't open up to me about his emotions but when he does it drives me crazy. He's told someone else that I'm the love of his life. Not too long ago he shared his feelings about having a baby with me which used to scare him completely. lol
2006-10-27 03:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he calls me during the day just because, when he gives me a hug or kiss when we pass each other, sometimes at night he'll wake me up just to tell me how much he loves me and cuddles with me, holds my hand when we're in the car or on the couch watching TV together...........
2006-10-27 03:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a chef so often finishes late but never fails to ring me to let me know exactly what time he will be in.
Brings me coffe every morning and tells me he loves me.
On his days off does whatever I want to do then cooks me a 5* meal.
I am a lucky lucky woman.
2006-10-27 03:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋