2006-10-27 02:56:39 · 27 answers · asked by Crew served weapon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a look at your relationship and is there a logit way this girl could love you... Is she on meds? Have you known her a week? Has she only in in BAD relationships in the past? Has she ever felt anything close to love before that you know of.... IF any of the above are true.. you may want to run for the hills... but if you have had any type of real relationship with this girl... then why wouldn't you trust her???
I can tell you for sure that I myself was in love at 18 with a 22 year old man... and we loved for a very long time.... I think about him all the time. I am still close with his family and if he hadn't been in a very bad accident.. we would have spent our forever together happly.
So... Only you can know if she loves you... look into her eyes and see if she is real! Do you feel for her? Obviously you care somewhat or you wouln't be asking this question.. So I think maybe you need to look at weather or not you can handle loving an 18 yr old woman. Dont feel bad... I just married myself a younger man too... I always liked the older guys..... but not now.. there are some REAL benifits to having a younger lover!
Good Luck
2006-10-27 03:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say no. they might fairly like eachother and that's effective and dandy, yet I merely responded one resembling this, the two each and every physique is at 2 distinctive tiers of their life. The 32yr previous is desirous to settle or is already settled. The 18 year previous is merely beginning their life! And purely some inquiries to ask your self, or the guy stepping into this: youngsters? Does the 32yr previous already have youngsters? if so, is that 18yr waiting to be a Dad? If no longer, and you pick for infants, 32 is getting kinda previous without including well-being hazards for the mum, and baby. profession? Is the lady going to help the family contributors? are you able to stay mutually and nonetheless end college? and definitely ask your self, i'm no longer attempting to be impolite or something, merely being elementary. What does a 32yr lady choose for with a 18yr boy? i'm hoping this helps, and with what ever you pick for, i'm hoping you're happy. :)
2016-11-25 23:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand why you are asking this question, I mean why wouldn't you take her serious, because she is 18?
Are 18 year olds not capable of being in love with someone. When I was 18 I was in love with someone (who was 32), 6 years later we are engaged to be married.
2006-10-27 03:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like your four years make some major difference, they don't. A woman at 18 may be every bit as mature and stable as a man of 30, or she may not be. That's something you have to decide on your own. You also have to look at your own level of maturity. Making her age such a big deal hints that perhaps you have some growing to do.
2006-10-27 03:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by bobsmith2089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a mature 18 than yes, if she's a giggly little high schooler still she probably feels she is but I wouldn't hold too much weight to it, you could say the wrong thing one day and honeymoons over...
2006-10-27 03:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyone but I had no clue what love was when I was 18. I am 26 now and still not completely sure that I know what love is. Do you love her? If you don't it really don't matter if she loves you or not.
2006-10-27 02:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do mean the young inexperienced wide eyed infatuated girl puppy love crush kind right. Cause she hasn't been breathing love enough to know what true love is.
But you could teach her ... if you know.
2006-10-27 03:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is 25...and I'm 19...and he takes me seriously when I tell him that I love him...but you have to look at the actions behind the words! Anyone can tell you they love you...not everyone can prove it!
2006-10-27 02:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not?? it doenst matter on how old someone is....age aint nothin but a number hunnie!! if she loves you then she loves you there is nothing u or anyone else can do about that...if you love her too then tell her back....if not then just let her know that you like her but are not in love right now....
2006-10-27 02:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kinda hard to tell when someone really means it because it's become a phrase we tend to use all the time. but if she'll make so me sacrafiecs for you and is totally into you and everything you do then yeah she means it but now the question is do you love her.
2006-10-27 02:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by kiyaluvin15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋