My live-in boyfriend works nights and I work days.....we only get a VERY small amount of time with each other here lately and we are constantly argueing, what are some suggestions as to how to make things a little better. Maybe some sweet things to do?
2006-10-27 03:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by TNL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I realize that not everyone agrees with live-in bf, but that is not the question at hand.
2006-10-27 03:25:35 · update #1
First of all live-in relationship by itself is not a prudent thing to do. Come out of it first. Things will be ok.
2006-10-27 03:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by ananthv_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ideal solution would be to get a job with similar shifts, although I know this isn't always possible.
Could you both get a few days off or even ring in sick. You could go out for a meal together and spend some quality time together. If you are a bit strapped for cash why not cook a meal together hire a movie get a bottle of wine and then fall into bed nice and early for a night of passion with candles lit etc etc.
Leave him (hidden) little notes telling him you love him before you go to work so he knows you are thinking about him, txt him sweet nothings while you are at work.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-27 10:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just take off same day with ur bf, so that both of you spend time together at least once a week. And make it memorable and pleasant. Try to adjust the time and perhaps both of your duty is not always like that. In everything there is always solution.
2006-10-27 10:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i kind of have the same problem...i work 6am-9pm & he works 3am-5pm......we NEVER get to see each other & we argue...but just make the best of the time you do get to spend with each other or try considering a different job bcuz that may be the problem.....you may not be seeing each other enough....i cant really give you any advice becuz i dont specialize in this & i am also going through it....im just speaking from experience!
2006-10-27 10:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could leave little notes where he can't miss the, telling him you miss him, can't wait to be with him, etc. Then, when you do have time to actually spend together...close out the rest of the world...No TV, NO Telephone, NO vistitors...just you and him and maybe some tunes on the stereo...NO INTERRUPTIONS!
2006-10-27 10:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get married....then both work days....too many relationships end because of the work schedules you talk about..
2006-10-27 10:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a weekend where you both can get away. That always does wonders for my husband and I.
2006-10-27 10:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by noonee333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think one of you might want to consider taking another job. it would give you time to be together.. and if you dont want to go to those extremes, decorate your house in like balloons and such to make it special for him!
good luck!
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2006-10-27 10:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by missie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking a "sick day" every once in awhile might be worth it. ;)
2006-10-27 10:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋