2006-10-27 02:38:37 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Did anything happen between the two of you before he left his partner? The saying goes that once a cheat always a cheat but sometimes you just don't know what was going on in their relationship. You shouldn't listen to everything he say's cos there's 2 sides to every story. But they could of been generally unhappy together and you could be the 1 for him.
2006-10-27 02:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend left his ex after he met me. I know that sounds bad but he wasn't happy with her and told her to leave and she wouldn't. Plus he had found out she had cheated on him with 4 of his then best friends when he was outside working on a car. He met me, we hit it off, became friends(only friends), he broke up with her down the road, and 5 months after he ended it with her he and I started going out. Sometimes yes I do wonder if I can really trust him but I love him with all my heart and we have been together for over 3 years now. If he wasn't happy with me and didn't love me he would have left me a long time ago. So I guess it all depends on the situation. I would tell you though DO NOT get invovled with an attached man. Be his friend but don't expect anything out of it or try to get anything out of it. It only leads to heart break. Always put yourself in the girlfriend's or wife's shoes and think how she would feel about her man doing that to her.
2006-10-27 04:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on the circumstances.
Some men like the thought of seeing someone else whilst in a relationship. But as soon he leaves her for the other, the excitement has gone.
Only you will know, depends on if he really loves you.
The other part is, the mess that has been left between him and the ex, could you deal wiith that??? ....just remember he could be lying to you about her to make you feel your the one he wants.
Talking is a good medicine, and it should clear up any doubts you have.
Good luck & all the best
2006-10-27 02:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by BigD 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I left my ex for my bf. And my bf left his wife for me. I would never cheat on the person I am with. We have been together over a year and we are very happy together. There are alot of variables to consider. Maybe the relationship was dead long before he left. Maybe their spouse was cheating and they found out about it. Maybe their spouse didn't care to fix the marriage. If it was just a sexual thing, I'd say you couldn't trust him. But sometimes you just fall in love with someone else. It happens. I'd say whether you can trust him or not depends on the relationship you have. Do you feel, in your heart, that you can trust him? There's your answer.
2006-10-27 02:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not...anyone whos been married and its failed knows that you can be very unhappy and/ or have married for the wrong reasons or the best intentions but things just didnt work properly...i wish that people werent so judgemental over these things...you never know what another mans situation is until you walk in his shoes...i dont see the big deal...if a man left his wife because he couldnt support her would you not be with that person because he would never support you??? i dont think it would make any difference to most people...give the guy a chance...everyone makes mistakes and we should be less judgemental and more accepting...go for it...but the if youre asking that on here...im not sure that you are sure about him...for whatever reason...listen to yourself...;0)
2006-10-27 05:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to not think so, but my current b/f broke up with his ex after meeting me. They had been together for 6 years. He wasn't happy for the last 2 years and even moved to another state, where he met me. It's hard sometimes to trust that he wouldn't do the same, but I just tell myself that we met for a reason and I know I make him happy. We've been together for 6 months now. The trust will come in time, I think.
2006-10-27 02:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, however, that is why I do not, will not, have not dated knowingly a married or attached man. What are you gaining ? Nothing I would want, a man who does not respect the relationship he has with his wife or girlfriend. Trust me, it is not that he finds the other woman so appealing, or special. it is a very selfish act and he will continue on with the behaviors as long as he can find women willing to deal with his selfishness. We as women need to empower other women rather than sleeping and dating their husbands and boyfriends. We must feel better about ourselves. God bless
2006-10-27 02:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I hope I can as I left my ex for the chance to be with my partner and he left his wife to be with me. I betrayed my ex but I would never betray my partner and I have absolute trust in him
2006-10-27 02:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never again! Once he's tasted honey he won't settle for anything less. There is an old saying in Spanish I believe would apply to your situation. Un perro que come mierda aunque le quemen la trompa. Roughly translated means Once a dog has eaten S---, Even if you burn iits mouth it'll do it again.
2006-10-27 02:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I fully agree with bradnmich.. once a cheater, always a cheater. Like pastor ronald l.k. chia from Singapore. He cheated me of SGD 168 for web design. If a pastor can cheat, your man may.
2006-10-27 22:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tashi Khoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋