ok so if you were a guy who was taking drugs and you had a girlfriend what would you expect her to do. stay with you and help you get clean, would you not give a crap about what she does, or would you want her to stop bugging you about the problem? and also do guys still love you if theyre on drugs?
2006-10-27 01:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw im a girl
2006-10-27 01:26:58 · update #1
btw im a girl
2006-10-27 01:29:55 · update #2
I'd of course want you to stay around but you'd always be second to my habit. If I was addicted, everything is secondary. I would want you to probably get into the habit with me. If you gave me heat about it I'd get pretty ticked at you . . . Unless I was 100% serious about dumping the dope I wouldn't want you to bother me about it. I would also expect you to know that you were second to it. Drugs and its tentacles transcend everything.
2006-10-27 01:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not nor have ever been on drugs so i dont know what you both are going through
he has to want to change -- to get off the drugs --- if he does not then all he will ever care about is the drugs
if thats how he is you might as well go now --- if wants to change then he will need people he cares far and who care for him around him
2006-10-27 08:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and run! As a women that has been physically abused by two boyfriends that were drug and alcohol abusers, run in the opposite direction. Men will not change unless they want to change and you cannot force them or help them to change if they aren't ready.
Be careful and good luck!
2006-10-27 08:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by megha717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a guy taking drugs why would any woman want to stay with me?
People that take drugs are losers, period.
2006-10-27 08:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all clean your self then you ll have the right 2 ask your Friend 2 stay around loving and helping you
2006-10-27 08:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by joj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life , all he loves are the drugs
2006-10-27 08:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should not EXPECT her to do anything, if you love this girl you should ask her if she will help you get threw your hard times and get clean. you have a problem so face up to it and dont put the blame on someone else.
2006-10-27 08:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem. I was givin the choice drugs or my woman, since she meant more to me I chose her. Hopefully he can see it that way. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 08:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by HUBBS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves u she should stand by u to get u out of this and if u really love her u should stop doing this but if she thought that u r not changing she probably leaves u
2006-10-27 08:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by saiporg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl who likes you will help you leave drugs but if she loves it she will join you.. and when she is not into you she will just chuck you there and then
2006-10-27 08:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by tinka bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋