I am engaged and we started talking in fone. He invited me for an outing and i agreed. Now i fear whether he advance to anything else..(he seeems naughty in talk)...Also think of what dress to wear..ofcource it is our first casual visit.Please advise
2006-10-27 00:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he's not your fiance, be very careful. Don't dress too daring, and whenever he tries anything on you, just say you're not interested and that you are engaged. But first of all: ask yourself why you want to go out with this man, is he a nice person that you want to befriend, or do you have some hidden agenda? It's not forbidden to just say no if someone invites you for a drink, especially if you think he's after you. Going out with him might rise his expectations that you want something from him. Don't give him that idea if you don't want to.
2006-10-27 00:58:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jaco K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi just relax yaar,
Don't worry be confident. Wear nice clothes but not revealing. Go to a place where lots of people are around. In case he wants to go for a long drive politely refuse saying you are not well enough to go on that particular day you would rather sit in a restaurant and talk. If he is a nice person he will understand. But even if he manages to get time with you alone and will try to make advance use the word NO. Remember nobody can force you to do anything. No means no that's it.
2006-10-27 08:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better be not afraid. If he does anything you wouldn't want him to, you are old enough to take care of yourself and say, "No!". Meeting in public is of course the best course. It is better to know about a person and have time to judge him before you tie the knots so that you won't have regrets later. Tell him that this being the first time, yuo would like the outing to be short and formal so that you can feel more confortable with him. Any person who really loves you should respect your feelings. Face it now! Good Luck!
2006-10-27 08:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you have never met each other. Like I always say, no means no weather your dating, engaged or married. If he's the one for you he will understand. Dress to be comfortable and feel confident. Maybe you can talk about your worries before you meet. It might make it easier.
2006-10-27 07:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is good to know each other before marriage.After all you need to live with this person for life long if a dating make you know about this person then that is good.If you believe on you and want to know about his needs ,No's .Good ,bad,his like and dislike then i think u should not be worried to go out with him. Very few of people are there who don't talk about sex because they are very shy and don't want to open in front of others.If sex is not there on the earth then you,me and no species would be exist on this earth. I think you should ask him some option like what colour he like and what kind of dress he like after all you both are going to marry and need to know each others like and dislike.. Best of luck... I think you are getting a chance to know your partner ...I advice know him....
2006-10-27 08:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by archu v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now don't prefer limit less enjoyment.
it may throw some blemishes on your character and conduct
though the engagement is over?
we have seen many failed stories not on screen alone but in day to day life.
being one with highest Chasity at this juncture will enhance your personality/traits
2006-10-27 08:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by R Purushotham Rao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this engagment arranged. that your meeting for the first time?
you let him know, you are a good decent girl....and he has to wait until the marriage for the fun stuff :)
wear something comfortable, but not revealing, what you wear, says alot about you..
boys have naughty minds and you have to learn how to tame that beast in them...lol...congradulations :) and good luck..
2006-10-27 07:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by donttalkjustplay05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank,
you FEAR that he will cross the limit , or you wish , hope & pray that he does so ?
Your Clothes wont matter after the ice is broken, hence dont waste time thinking about them.
2006-10-27 07:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take things slow, if u dont know him well enough, theres plenty of time for that later down the line.
2006-10-27 10:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlipsy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear what ever you want be your self don't be shy don't hesitate be confidant...every thing will be alright
2006-10-27 08:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by joj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋